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  • Aug 19, 2012, 10:12 AM
    RawrLikeATurtle
    Am I being emotionaly abused by my mom?
    I am not fully sure if I am or not. This may have no reason to be here but my parents are divorced, but every time I go to my dad's my mom gets pissed, her normal saying is that I'm a trator. She always calls me worthless and tells me I'm stupid, annoying, idiotic, dumb, a , and hated by everyone. She once threw me agenst a wall and left a cut on my back from the desk I ran into. She always threatens us that she will stick my head in the doorway and slam the door shut, or that I don't get to go see my friends (after I make plans and I am excited about it). I had cut for a period and when I told her she hit me three times, left me in my room, took me out again, hit me three times again, and set me back into my room. I am mostly always scared to go talk to her and ask questions because I don't know how she will react. I feel like school is a safe haven for me and that is why I love it so much. I get A's and B's and yet I still can do better. My best is never enough, it feels like, and I always feel like near her.

    Thanks for taking time out of your day to try to help me findout if it is or not.
  • Aug 19, 2012, 10:15 AM
    Wondergirl
    What do you do that she abuses you? What behavior?
  • Aug 20, 2012, 05:20 PM
    RawrLikeATurtle
    I sont knowto tell the truth I don't know... sometimes it is for when she is just annoyied and me and my sibblings talk ti each other othertimes I don't know at all
  • Aug 20, 2012, 05:27 PM
    Wondergirl
    I'm wondering if you set her off with what you do, or if she has an anger problem and is looking for trouble wherever she can find it.
  • Aug 20, 2012, 06:12 PM
    backpack2389
    From your description it sounds like your mother is physically and emotionally abusing you. Do you have a school counselor you can talk to about this to maybe get some help?
  • Aug 20, 2012, 06:22 PM
    JudyKayTee
    She was angry because you were skipping school? Is that what you meant by "cutting school"?

    Perhaps you have a problem with authority - I do notice that when advised that AMHD does not do homework you posted an answer anyway.

    Is that a problem for your mother?
  • Aug 20, 2012, 07:51 PM
    RawrLikeATurtle
    No I had cut... not school my arm and I finish all my homework.. my friends call me a goody two shoes because I have never been in trouble with authority
  • Aug 21, 2012, 05:27 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by RawrLikeATurtle View Post
    no i had cut......not school my arm and i finish all my homework..my friends call me a goody two shoes because i have never been in trouble with authority


    If you are cutting is very possible that your mother is simply frustrated, worried, feels she has no options.
  • Aug 22, 2012, 02:31 PM
    RawrLikeATurtle
    Was cutting after... she started this at the beginning of school last year... or so I knowticed
    Q
  • Aug 22, 2012, 02:34 PM
    J_9
    If your mother is truly doing these things you say she is, it would be wise for you to talk to your counselor at school

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