My relationship was about 6 months, everything was great with her, whatever problems we had, we talked it out. We became pregnant and although it was soon in our relationship I was a man and stood by her side. Her parents loved me and was great with helping her with her daughter. We ended up miscarrying our baby and were both devistated, she's still in greiving but a week later, she broke up with me. Said our relationship was good and I treated her the best that any guy has but she lost the connection.. im thinking its all centered around our miscarriage.. I did what a lot of guys would not have done, and stuck by her side through it all, but came up short.. I am now in no contact with her, I miss her and my instincts tell me its not over... any advice on what I should do?

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Originally Posted by robinsonb20

My relationship was about 6 months, everything was great with her, whatever problems we had, we talked it out. We became pregnant and altho it was soon in our relationship i was a man and stood by her side. Her parents loved me and was great with helping her with her daughter. We ended up miscarrying our baby and were both devistated, shes still in greiving but a week later, she broke up with me. Said our relationship was good and i treated her the best that any guy has but she lost the connection..im thinking its all centered around our miscarriage.. i did what alot of guys would not have done, and stuck by her side through it all, but came up short..i am now in no contact with her, i miss her and my instincts tell me its not over....any advice on what i should do??

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Yes, do nothing - it could be that it was a brief relationship and lasted as long as it did because of the pregnancy; maybe she can't separate you from the miscarriage; maybe her parents weren't all that happy and blame you for the pregnancy.

Leave her alone.