My boyfriend is from india and he is here on a student visa ,it will expire in 2014 .we want to get married but he is concerned about our age difference ,he is 30 and I am 45 ,will that be a problem.. and I was married before and got my ex husband his papers... what is your opion on this case .and what can we do ?thanks... Mary

"got my ex husband his papers " sorry what does that mean?

Will it work ? 1/2 of all first marriages fail they tell me, and a larger number fail in 2nd and 3rd marriages.

But you don't go into a marriage with a worry that it will fail. You go in trying hard to make it work