So this girl has a boyfriend, but she said she has a crush on me, this boyfriend is a long distance relationship. She always say she loves him, but she always hugs me and wants me by her all day, she says she would date me if it wasn't for her having a boyfriend. But she grabs my hand and holds it and she smiles and stairs at me, so what do I do. I starting to love this girl, I can't stop thinking about her, she went to her boyfriends house today, but wants me to always text her. He cheated on her and said he was hit by a car as an excuse, and he choked her one day. So what do I do I am stronger than him so do I bet the hell out of him or give him a warning to back off. Need info asap before I do something wrong.

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Originally Posted by devanspicer7

So this girl has a boyfriend, but she said she has a crush on me, this boyfriend is a long distance relationship. She always say she loves him, but she always hugs me and wants me by her all day, she says she would date me if it wasnt for her having a boyfriend. But she grabs my hand and holds it and she smiles and stairs at me, so what do i do. I starting to love this girl, i can't stop thinking about her, she went to her boyfriends house today, but wants me to always txt her. He cheated on her and said he was hit by a car as an excuse, and he choked her one day. So what do i do i am stronger than him so do i bet the hell out of him or give him a warning to back off. Need info asap before i do something wrong.

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So you are thinking of beating up (which I would assume you mean) the boyfriend because of something the girlfriend says about him - right?

She won't tell him to back off, she remains his girlfriend, but you are going to step in, risk a criminal record, and beat the guy up?

She's playing the two of you against each other, and she's playing you for a fool.

Girls love it when guys fight over them. She's trying to maniulate you and possibly him. If you get into a fight with him there's the possibility of going to jail. If he actually choked her I'm sure she would have called the police. Also there would have been bruises on her neck from where the boy choked her. If someone such as her parents or a family member had seen the bruises they would have reported it to the police.

This is none of your affair. When she is ready to leave the jerk she will. In the meantime she has you to stroke her ego.
Leave this girl alone. She is bad news and is playing you like a fiddle.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

So you are thinking of beating up (which I would assume you mean) the boyfriend because of something the girlfriend says about him - right?

She won't tell him to back off, she remains his girlfriend, but you are going to step in, risk a criminal record, and beat the guy up?

She's playing the two of you against each other, and she's playing you for a fool.

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I don't know really, thank all of you for the advice, I read all the ones closest to my question they said several things really, I want to sleep over it, I will answer back with and update.

Thank all of you for your advice I left the and I am now so happy I can't stand it, I can find a better out there somewhere else, espcially one that wants to PARTY!!