We only had a relation of 3 and half month. I was going through a broken marriage and he was married with a kid. We both fell in love and I changed my entire world based on his promises. And when it was time to work it out together, he backed off saying that, he,was not sure. He needed time. I left my job for him, so that I could settle somewhere so both of us could be together, and the moment I left the job, the person changed overnight.

I still love him and it hurts...

Why did you change your life for him so early in the relationship? I think you moved too quickly and now you're paying the price for it. Start working on getting your job back first, then start moving on. Take it slow next time, no need to rush things, no matter how right it may feel.

Sorry you had to learn such a painful lesson. Married guys lie to mistresses, and affairs, and chicks on the side. AND their WIVES!