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  • Aug 17, 2012, 03:06 AM
    Five7even
    Girlfriend wants to experiment with other girls.
    My girlfriend and I have been going out for many years since high school, but now we are in sophomore college. Well all sudden, she tells me how she likes this girl and wanted to experience if she likes girls or not... At this point I was shocked and confused.. She said she is coming back to me IF things don't work out with her and I'm here asking myself what went wrong?

    I guess I can say I used to be a person who ran or did pretty much anything for her smile. But lately I have been treating her bad and I regret that.. I was wondering what I should do from now on? I know this'll ruin what is my true love and future fianceé but I'm so lost at this point on what is going on...

    She says she can't live without me so she asked me to be her best friend.. Im so lost.. I'm not here to play games but to build a future for our relationship. How can she do this if she loved me so much and just go with a girl that she really likes?
  • Aug 17, 2012, 04:51 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Tell her not to bother coming back, being bi or lesbian is not an excuse for cheating.

    If she does not want to be in a committed relationship, you don't need to be wasting your time.
  • Aug 17, 2012, 09:37 AM
    backpack2389
    You don't seem at all happy with this person and she's not even really in the relationship. She's sexually confused and she cheated. I don't see anything good for you here and think it would be best for you to move on.
  • Aug 18, 2012, 11:53 AM
    talaniman
    Shocking to lose a fiancé this way but she isn't ready to settle down and build a long term relationship because she wants to experiment, and explore.

    Let her, and move on and don't look back and foolishly think its out of her system. That may takes years so waste no more time on this one. She wasn't in it to win it. May never be.

    Sorry for your loss, but better now than after you get a mortgage car note, and a few kids.

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