I've just split up with my boyfriend of 6 and half months, because he’d been caught kissing some other girl by my sister. Even though he’d been caught he still denied it.

He's always lied to me and probably cheated on me more than once, but I don't know whether he's lying or telling the truth anymore.

Even though we aren't together anymore, I still love him so much, and don't want to lose him, I’m with him every day and he does do anything and everything for me, I just want him to tell the truth and not cheat etc.
I don't know what to do? :(

Do you really wish to set yourself for a cheat? Someone who makes you feel special as you said and then he's kissing some other girl on the other hand . Why will your sister lie to you. And see there is no smoke without fire. A thief would never surrender himself he is always caught red handed & so was your ex.Guys love attention & when you are giving him why won't he seek for more , obviously he'll do everything to get it . I think u should just break up and move on from this casanova .
Acc . To me when a girl is brought up like Princess by her parents then she should never set herself from
Anything less than being someone's Queen. Keep up the poise ! Strengthen up yourself & take a back from the cheat . And for
Your satisfaction investigate about the truth more and simply go NC. :)

That's my opinion . But here there are experts who will surely help you further with a better and more mature opinion :)

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Originally Posted by Heartache402

Do you really wish to set yourself for a cheat? Someone who makes you feel special as you said and then he's kissing some other girl on the other hand . Why will your sister lie to you. ? And see there is no smoke without fire. A thief would never surrender himself he is always caught red handed & so was your ex.Guys love attention & when you are giving him why wont he seek for more , obviously he'll do everything to get it . I think u should just break up and move on from this casanova .
Acc . To me when a girl is brought up like Princess by her parents then she should never set herself from
Anything less than being someone's Queen. Keep up the poise ! Strengthen up yourself & take a back from the cheat . And for
Your satisfaction investigate about the truth more and simply go NC. :)

That's my opinion . But here there are experts who will surely help you futher with a better and more mature opinion :)

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I Understand What You Mean And I Don't Want That Sort Of Thing But I Just Can't Get Rid Because When He's Not Their With Me I Just Feel Lost And Lonely, When He Is With Me It Feels Like He's The Only Friend I Have , I Don't Want To Feel Lost And Lonely , As I Have A Lot Of Problems One Of Them Which Bieng Where I Won't Go Out On My Own So I Can't Meet Anybody Else, It Won't Feel The Same With Anybody Else

See you need to get out of your shell . You want to be with him not because you love him but because he rescue's you from loneliness, somewhere even you know that he's a cheat. Being scared of loneliness is not the solution. Go out socialise , make new friends . Get out of the comfort zone. I know and I understand you might not feel like going any where right now. Being ditched is sulky. But push aside all the excuses for not going out. Instead go! Enjoy. Don't let your world recovlve around One single person . Esp. A cheat! Keep yourself involved with activities . Stay around friends or family. Are you in school? What do you do?

Well I'm supposed to be in school in September (year 11) but I developed school phobia, probably becoz I wanted to spend all my time with my ex. But My Ex Is Like Older Than Me But He's Away For The Next Ten Days So Maybe I Could Try And Get My Head Together While He's Not Here ? Plus Nothing Helps Worrying About My Pregnant Sister(17) I Just Have To Deal With It All I Guess Thts What Lifes About Right

Now common, you have so much stuff to do. School is the best platform to meet , meet new people make friends , participate in creative activities . Open your eyes there is so much stuff lying just by your side to do. Why stuck up On a jerk?
All you need to do is BREAK OUT OF THE SHELL that you have created for yourself . Ex was an ex. There is no point spending more time with him . Keep absolutely NO CONTACT with him. And start up with a new life. Stop acting like a typical introvert. Talk to people . Make new friends . Seek for new avenues in life. Be positive. Smile and be strong.

You'd rather be with a lying cheat than be alone? That is sad. You need some confidence and self esteem.
A bit of counseling may help.

Your boyfriend is the last of your issues since you have made a crutch of this liar. How about taking the cap lock off and tell us if your parents are helping you find healthy ways to deal with your stress and issues.

You're just a child and in ten years when you're actually an adult this will all be totally insignificant. I'm sorry but you have your entire life ahead of you and plenty of relationships in your future. Just focus on yourself and don't invest so much in a guy.