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  • Aug 16, 2012, 07:08 AM
    misskitty89
    My boyfriend doesn't care about me.
    Hi!

    I'm 22 and it's been 6 months and a half that I'm with my boyfriend. I don't know if I'm the problem in our relationship or if I'm overreacting but here's the thing, it was wonderful at the beginning, he was always here for me. Then he started to be less here for me (we don't live in the same city, we can see each other only the week end). During the week we couldn't talk. He was with his friends and he didn't want to talk so much because he says that it's a waste of time, and it's not good to talk too much!

    But now, it's been 4 days that I'm home and he barely talks to me! He prefers to see his friends, to play video games with them. I'm so sad and so unhappy! He doesn't understand, he says that I'm selfish, possessive and so on. I'm crying all the time, I have the feeling that he doesn't care about me anymore, that he doesn't love me. I mean, I just want to talk to him, that's normal! I'm just here to give him cuddles, love, kisses, sex during the week end !

    It's not love, it's kind of a booty call!

    What do you reckon ? I need help !

    Thanks.
  • Aug 16, 2012, 07:12 AM
    J_9
    I reckon it's time to move on to someone who DOES care about you?
  • Aug 16, 2012, 07:22 AM
    odinn7
    Sounds like he's using you and you are starting to become pushy as you realize this.

    Time to break it off with him and find someone that does care and isn't just using you when they want something.
  • Aug 16, 2012, 06:56 PM
    Homegirl 50
    I think it is time to move on. I would imaging once you stop giving up the booty, he would soon walk away, or he may not even care.
    Time to walk away.
  • Aug 18, 2012, 04:24 PM
    talaniman
    I reckon you are right, you are a booty call. At least get one that like to talk.

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