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  • Aug 15, 2012, 01:32 PM
    Ayonna
    I don't know if I'm pregnant or Not.
    I had sex I'm 16 and my boyfriend is to and we didn't use a condom this time and he saw tha nut in my whole and I washed it out ! Cud I still be pregnant ?
  • Aug 15, 2012, 09:09 PM
    teacherjenn4
    Yes, because you had sex. Whenever you have sex, even using birth control, you can become pregnant. Washing after sex does not prevent pregnancy.
  • Aug 15, 2012, 09:47 PM
    Alty
    Yes. Any time penis enters vagina, even if you use protection, pregnancy is possible. There's no way to wash it away, plenty of sperm got where it needs to be as soon as he ejaculated. In fact, sperm already got in long before he ejaculated, there's more than enough to get the job done in pre-ejaculate, the substance that lubricates his penis so that he can get in to begin with.

    It's too late to change it now. Now you get to wait, hope and pray. If you get lucky and you're not pregnant then it's time to learn from this and then think about your future. Are you ready to be a mother? You may not have a choice after this.

    Good luck.
  • Aug 16, 2012, 03:24 PM
    Ayonna
    No I'm nt ready ! :( I'm really scared !
  • Aug 16, 2012, 03:29 PM
    Ayonna
    When sud I take a pregnancy test ? @alty
  • Aug 16, 2012, 03:46 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Ayonna View Post
    When sud I take a pregnancy test ? @alty

    Wait until you miss your period. If you just had sex then it's too early to test.

    If your period is very regular than wait until it's due, and then wait another week. Remember that stress can also delay your period, as can many other things.

    When you test make sure to use first morning urine, and follow the instructions exactly. Also remember that false negatives are very common, and often happen because it's too early to test. It can take some women months to get an accurate reading, so if you test and it's negative, wait another week or two then test again. Keep testing until you either get your period or a positive response. If you've missed two periods and the tests are still negative then I would highly suggest going to your doctor for a more accurate blood test.

    For now don't stress out. Chances are that you dodged the bullet, and stressing about it won't change what's already happened. If you are pregnant, you are, and you can deal with it when that time comes. We'll be here to help if that happens. Okay?
  • Aug 16, 2012, 03:54 PM
    Ayonna
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    Wait until you miss your period. If you just had sex then it's too early to tests.

    If your period is very regular than wait until it's due, and then wait another week. Remember that stress can also delay your period, as can many other things.

    When you test make sure to use first morning urine, and follow the instructions exactly. Also remember that false negatives are very common, and often happen because it's too early to test. It can take some women months to get an accurate reading, so if you test and it's negative, wait another week or two then test again. Keep testing until you either get your period or a positive response. If you've missed two periods and the tests are still negative then I would highly suggest going to your doctor for a more accurate blood test.

    For now don't stress out. Chances are that you dodged the bullet, and stressing about it won't change what's already happened. If you are pregnant, you are, and you can deal with it when that time comes. We'll be here to help if that happens. Okay?

    Okay I'm really stress out && I haven't came in my period yet do I'm really freaking out ! :( but I hope I'm nt because a babi is nt what I need to be worried about rite nw ! :(
  • Aug 16, 2012, 04:02 PM
    odinn7
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Ayonna View Post
    but I hope im nt because a babi is nt wat I need 2 be worried about rite nw ! :(

    Then learn from this and stop having sex until you are ready.
  • Aug 16, 2012, 04:55 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Ayonna View Post
    Okay im jst really stress out && I haven't came in my period yet do im really freaking out ! :( but I hope im nt because a babi is nt wat I need 2 be worried about rite nw ! :(

    Ayonna, I do have to ask that you stop posting in chat speak. It's not only against the rules of this site, but most of the members here are older and educated, and cannot read chat speak.

    For those that did understand your post I'll translate, and I have to say, it hurt my head to do it, so please, from now on, complete words. We also have spell check available. :)

    Ayonna's post "Okay I'm just really stressed out and I haven't came in my period yet. I'm really freaking out! But I hope I'm not because a baby is not what I need to be worried about right now!"

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