Hi everyone, since mid last year I've known a girl and we became best friends before eventually dating. At the time I was only 2 months away from leaving home for training in the British Army so she eventually broke up with me, while on my leaves I spent every day with her (just as best friends although I wanted her bad) I couldn't stand it so I left the army and we got back together, it's been really good for a couple of months but she's suddenly clicked, she barely sees me and doesn't text much and when I asked her what was wrong all she said was how I've changed and she's spending a lot more time with her friends and never inviting me out, sex life has died and I'm starting to think if it's really worth it. She's the best girl I've known and I do love her deeply but it's just hurting now. She's going to University in September and I'm doubting it's going to work out... What should I do?

Sounds to me she's growing apart from you, maybe go back to how you were before you "changed" would do the trick. On the other hand, would you really want to be with someone that doesn't love you as much as you love her? Sounds like you need to know how much she loves you first before going through with the relationship.

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Originally Posted by santhalus

sounds to me shes growing apart from you, maybe go back to how you were before you "changed" would do the trick. on the other hand, would you really want to be with someone that doesn't love you as much as you love her? sounds like you need to know how much she loves you first before going through with the relationship.

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We're already together, but I've really shot myself in the foot. She's the one that's changed ever since I came home