There is a guy who I kind of like, but I don't know if he likes me. All of my friends think he does, but I am not sure. How can I tell if a guy likes me? If he thinks I'm a good singer and gives me compliments, would he like me? I need help!

I like a guy, but I want to know how to make him like me back. What should I do?

First, you can't "make" anyone like you.

Now, what is there about you that a boy would like?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

First, you can't "make" anyone like you.

Now, what is there about you that a boy would like?

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I don't know, I guess I'm cheerful, but I'm not sure if I'm pretty, I can sing. Act. Ummm, I have personality? I don't know, I guess I'm pretty boring

Compliments and nice gestures don't always mean someone likes you. Is he generally a nice guy? I just wouldn't want you to assume he likes you because he's a nice guy. Understand?

Can I ask how old you are? Have you thought about just asking him? It would be a lot quicker and straight forward if you ask. It would take out all of the guessing.

The thing I caught in your post was the fact that you said you "kind of like". Why not just be friends until you're sure. No need to rush into anything.

Is this the same guy from your other post? The one you "kind of like" but are unsure if he likes you?

Like the poster said above, you can't "make" anyone like you. It's something that happens naturally. Like I stated in my other post to you. Why not just be friends. This will allow you to understand fully if you really like him and if he likes you at all.

Worth a shot right? Better than doing nothing and never knowing ;)

When the words "make" and "like me" end up in the same sentence I always see trouble. See in the act of trying to "make" someone like you, you change yourself. You become someone you're not just to try and get them to like you. When you do that you make that person like someone you are not and then bam before you know it, it's 4 months into the relationship, you get comfortable with him and then you start to become "yourself" and then he decides he doesn't like you.

Don't try and make people like you. Be yourself and those who like you will come running and those people will be the ones who like you for you.

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Originally Posted by ITstudent2006

Compliments and nice gestures don't always mean someone likes you. Is he generally a nice guy? I just wouldn't want you to assume he likes you because he's a nice guy. Understand?

Can I ask how old you are? Have you thought about just asking him? It would be a lot quicker and straight forward if you ask. It would take out all of the guessing.

The thing I caught in your post was the fact that you said you "kind of like". Why not just be friends until you're sure. No need to rush into anything.

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Okay, but really, he's normally pretty mean, so you should understand how I was confused.

I guess I accidentally wrote make in there. What I meant to say, was what do guys like in a girl? What do guys do when they like someone?

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Originally Posted by mynameiskathy

I guess I accidentally wrote make in there. What I meant to say, was what do guys like in a girl? What do guys do when they like someone?

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Everyone is different. Every one of us have different likes and dislikes about everything. All you can do is be yourself and you'll find the people who like you for you.