I'm knew to this so I'll try get in as much as I can and to everyone who helps me I greatly appriciate it and will help you best I can, I've been with girl 6 months now, everything was going great, we fell in love, she said it was meant to be, she made me a better person, we had our fights and we would get stubbern but we always got over it and were stronger, then she startd comeing out to me less, cancel plans last min, we'd fight over that because I'd get anoyd, I'd be lucky to see her once a week, she would always txt threw out the day telling me she loves me, but trying to get her to come out was hard she was always busy or tired, it happened again I got ready to meet her and she was to tired so I got bad, getn bad I mean getn a bit odd, not shouting or any of that, then she said she doesn't think its working, she said she's still in love with me but is confused, I told her its breaking my heart and if she wants me to contact me and if not then don't, she keeps saying she loves me an doesn't want to loose me bt won't get back together because she is confused, help me what do I do? No contact? I love this girl and don't want to loose her

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Originally Posted by mcluvn

I'm knew to this so I'll try get in as much as I can and to everyone who helps me I greatly appriciate it and will help you best I can, I've been with girl 6 months now, everyting was going great, we fell in love, she said it was ment to be, she made me a better person, we had our fights and we would get stubbern but we always got over it and were stronger, then she startd comeing out to me less, cancel plans last min, we'd fight over that because I'd get anoyd, I'd be lucky to see her once a week, she would always txt threw out the day telling me she loves me, but trying to get her to come out was hard she was always busy or tired, it happend again I got ready to meet her and she was to tired so I got bad, getn bad I mean getn a bit odd, not shouting or any of that, then she said she doesn't think its working, she said she's still in love with me but is confused, I told her its breaking my heart and if she wants me to contact me and if not then don't, she keeps saying she loves me an doesn't want to loose me bt won't get back together because she is confused, help me what do I do? No contact? I love this girl and don't want to loose her

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Wow - this must hurt! I think the best you can is respect her wishes, give her time to think and be alone. She's the only one who can sort through her "confusion."

You have no idea what is going on?

Ya it does hurt a lot, she doesn't want me to leave her alone, she still texts me and contacts me, just doesn't want to be with me and she doesn't know why, says she still loves me and I did nothing wrong, I say what's the prob then, I duno I'm confused she'd say, I'm afraid she just wants me around to txt and know I'm there while she's seeing what its like being single, or what other options are there, I don't know what's going on, just want things back to how they were