I did not have sex, but we came close to it and I'm worried I might be pregnant. A few days after this I started getting a very dark, thick, discharge. If I look, it is built up in there waiting to come out. The lips are swollen, itchy, and there is burning. Sometimes blood comes out but MAYBE once a day, and is very light, a lot less then my normal period. Ive been under a ton of stress lately, and I think that might be why I have a.. missed.. period. Also, I have thrush in my throat which is a type of yeast infection, so I thought it might have moved to my vagina, but the discharge is black not white..

Please see your doctor to make sure that you don't have a sexually transmitted infection (or even bacterial vaginosis) because the bleeding, discharge and other symptoms are not normal. Can you get pregnant without penetration? Yup -- but it's rare and of course you need to see a doc to be tested.