My dad past away on Monday the 6th aug I found him in his flat would he of known they I would find him and I hope he didn't go through a lot of pain I want him to no I'm looking after his meerkat statue and I'm missing him so much and I love him

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Originally Posted by Tina2506

My dad past away on Monday the 6th aug I found him in his flat would he of known they I would find him and I hope he didn't go through alot of pain I want him to no I'm looking after his meerkat statue and I'm missing him so much and I love him

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No one knows if he went through a lot of pain. We can guess, but we don't know.

What are you asking? I don't know what you need to know, hope to find out.

I'm sorry - this is terribly, terribly recent and you must be hurting a lot.

We are sorry for your loss, I hasten not to say this, but here it is anyway, if you found him just sitting in a chair or laying on the floor most likely he did not feel anything and just quietly passed, perhaps a moment at the end but normally just go. If he was on the floor and it looks like he just fell to the floor most likey he was passed before he ever hit it.

Normally those suffering will make it to a phone and call for help.

My dad had a heart attack on the 6th August I just wanted to no if he is watching me I'm trying to keep strong but I still can't believe his not hear any more can u tell him I'm missing him and tell him yeah I no he knows what I mean

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Originally Posted by Tina2506

My dad had a heart attack on the 6th August I just wanted to no if he is watching me I'm trying to keep strong but I still can't believe his not hear any more can u tell him I'm missing him and tell him yeah I no he knows what I mean

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Tina, are you using two different names on AMHD?

Grief is hard - very hard. There are stages and going forward and going backward. I am so sorry you're going through this, I truly am.

Whether he sees you, is with you, hears you, that depends on your religious beliefs, your personal beliefs, his beliefs.

I don't know what you mean by "can u tell him I'm missing him." No one here knew your father, was close to your father, loved your father, has any means of contacting him.

You either believe YOU can contact him... or you don't. For your sake, I hope that's your belief, but I have no way of knowing.

It was not two user names, when they post using their mobile phones the post is not found by clicking on their user names, a mobile post does not show as a active post for them, until it is moved from mobile to a real category **a issue in my opinion since it is hard to find their other posts.

I just merged the posts and moved it

Sweetie I know how you feel. My dad passed 3 days before my 19th birthday, I am now 20. We watched him suffer in his own bed for a week straight. He refused to eat and he couldn't move.. we finally called the ambulance and they kept him in the hospital until he passed 3 months later. I was holding his hand when this accrued and I also got pregnant soon after and I had my baby 8 days before my dads birthday.. very hard.. but no I believe your father went peacefully and I believe in the after life and paranormal events so I know he knows your taking good care of his things and he knows how much you love and miss him