My boyfriend left me. We had been together almost 2 years. We moved into his moms house and rented it from her. Well me and her didn't always see eye to eye and we got into a huge fight. Well he defended me and it made her jealous so she kicked us out. We had to move back into my parents house until we could find somewhere else to live. The first few days everything seemed OK. Then all of a sudden he didn't come back until he was ready for bed andwoke up and went straight to work. This went on for a few weeks and then he stopped coming back. I tried to ask him where he was and if he was OK. He said he wanted to start a life with me but not at the cost of losing his family that had always been there for him. It ripped my heart out.. I tried to talk to him about it but he ignored me. A few days later he said he just wasn't happy anymore. So I left him alone for a week and he sent me a message on Facebook Thursday saying he didn't have minutes on his phone and asked if I tried to contact him at all... when I said no he seemed confused and then asked how I was doing and if I was seeing someone else or had sex with anyone else. We both said no to being with anyone else. I asked him if he missed me and he said yea at times and wondered if I missed him. I said I did and tried to ask him where he was staying at but he logged off. Now its Saturday and I just heard he wanted to meet this girl.
I miss him and even my parents thought he was the one which is a big deal(since they have hated everyone else). Everyone thought we were perfect together and so did I. we were so happy before we were kicked out. We had so much passion and love for each other. I know we had our flaws but we worked good together. I'm just confused because he told me he loved me before he left and now this. I understand he is confused and upset with the argument with his mom. I just want to make things right between us because a love like that doesn't just go away. How do I get him to see that what we had was real, find out if he still cares, how to get him back??
I am trying to move on and not wait around for him. Its so hard to let go of what I thouguht waas something perfect for me. I can't stop thinking about all the good times and fun we had. I remember how hard he clung to me when he came back from his fishing trip less than 2 months ago and knowing just how much we loved each other. What can I do to win him back? I don't want to live without him.