Ask Me Help Desk - Corrupt social worker stole my boys

The social worker involved with my kids made sure the both of them were taken out of my care by telling lies about me and my family accusing me of neglect and lack of parental control saying that I'm in an abusive relationship when I'm not she clearly has no idea what she is talking about and lied to me saying my kids would only be in temporary care when really she was plotting behind my back for me not to get my children back ever,she has already put my 15 year old son at risk by putting him with a foster family that abuse there own children and I can't do a thing about it.she lied about my 7 year old boy saying that he is scared of my partner when he is clearly not as it has already been proven.my boys need to be home with me there mother where they were well looked after in the first place they are both heartbroken because of this incompetent social worker who clearly cannot do her job properly please help me thanks .

So you are perfect... and the system is corrupt.

First off nobody "STOLE" your boys... they were taken from your because YOU failed to meet the minimum required standards for doing it yourself.

A lot more people were involved in this that ONE person... and they ALL agreed with their assessment.

This was for the safety and welfare of your boys. This was based on evidence and not just the word of ONE person.

What you have done was rant but haven't presented any evidence that proves them wrong. And unless you can prove them wrong... you WON'T get your boys back.

And you have to start with acknowledging that you have a problem... and work at resolving the problem they as in multiple people agree exists.

Unless you do... the court will never give them back.

You might find this hard to believe... but social services isn't there just to pick on you... its there to make sure as few kids grow up in dangerous, unhealthy or unsafe conditions as possible.

I'm not saying this to be mean... but you are going to have to acknowledge what they claim... and take steps to correct the problems if you ever want your kids back. Otherwise you don't stand a chance.

What are you like a social workers licker because you sound like you are you ain't got a clue what kind of people these parasites are I mean you got kids yourself or has this kind of thing not happened to you that you got the nerve to speak to me like that when you don't even know who I am. When it happens to to you or if it ever does then you will see how quickly you will change your tune unless of course you are just a stone cold hearted person who feels nothing exactly like the social workers omg wake up and see what's going on all the time,how would you like your kids taken off you all because your social worker doesn't like your partner and believe me that is the reason why she done it it's the only reason hence all the lies she told about me my kids my partner the lot just to get what she wanted all because I wouldn't end my relationship with him but then again me and my family are not allowed to be happy and lead a normal existence all because of a freak like that but hey you don't know me or my situation so you think what you like at least I know the truth of it all.thanks for your reply I really didn't need to hear that I love my kids more than life itself OK.:( :(

What does your partner do that makes the social worker not like him?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

What does your partner do that makes the social worker not like him?

The social worker just doesn't like it when someone stands up to her and gives her a taste of her own medicine back and that's why she is behaving the way she is the woman is seriously deranged in the head.

Sorry but you calling them names and refusing to work them gets your children taken away, so his way of handling is not working is it. I am sorry but youe can get a hearing, so you have a right to apeal and have to make them prove the case,

Perhaps you are just angry but your attitude in the post, is the same as with a case worker I know why the kids were taken away

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Originally Posted by Angela 21

What are you like a social workers licker cos you sound like you are you ain't got a clue what kind of people these parasites are I mean you got kids yourself or has this kind of thing not happened to you that you got the nerve to speak to me like that when you don't even know who I am. When it happens to to you or if it ever does then you will see how quickly you will change your tune unless of course you are just a stone cold hearted person who feels nothing exactly like the social workers omg wake up and see what's going on all the time,how would you like your kids taken off you all because your social worker doesn't like your partner and believe me that is the reason why she done it it's the only reason hence all the lies she told about me my kids my partner the lot just to get what she wanted all because I wouldn't end my relationship with him but then again me and my family are not allowed to be happy and lead a normal existence all because of a freak like that but hey you don't know me or my situation so you think what you like at least I know the truth of it all.thanks for your reply I really didn't need to hear that I love my kids more than life itself ok.:( :(

Nobody ever called a Social Worker on me - why did someone call CPS on you?

So - get an Attorney and sue CPS for their mistreatment of you and your children. PROVE this was all a master plot because someone wants your children. Get your children returned to you AND get some money for the way they've treated you.

We don't know your situation. That's true. Tell us what we need to know, your proof of the situation, and we'll actually help you prepare the legal papers to get your children returned and the social worker arrested.

Exactly my point... and she refuses to see that. They have certainly told her over and over again but she was unwilling to listen so as a result they were rightfully taken from her.

As long as she takes this attitude... she stands little if any chance of getting them back.

Maybe a few years of living without her kids might finally get that idea to sink in.

Cops don't like it either, nor do judges... or ANYONE that actually has more authority than you have. Be an *** with any of them and expect to be on the losing end every single time.

And in fact they were likely being lenient with you in the beginning and your attitude pushed them into taking the hard line.

I'm not saying this to be mean... but most people learn these lessons in life as children... and some of those that don't end up in jail. Others like in your case... end up losing their kids because the powers that be... CAN tell you what you are NOT allowed to do when it comes to children.

Sorry, but that's life. You NEED to learn some humility because you are NOT in any position to get what you want with this type of attitude.

You don't HAVE to like them... but you DO have to listen to them and show them some respect. Especially when you were obviously subject to their decisions.

I'm actually trying to help you here because not even knowing everything and the opinion we form based on what you say and how you say it is not a favorable one... and if you do manage to get this case heard... how you act, speak and present yourself WILL make the difference between winning and losing... even if you can prove wrongdoing.

You have to play this game by THEIR rules... Calm, rational, and respectful go a long way when dealing with others particularly when they have authority over you.

No we don't know you and your family. But we do know the system and that checks and balances exist. To assume that a single case worker can act alone without oversight is very hard to believe. Case workers are subject to supervision. Actions taken by case workers, especially when it involves removing children from their home, are made either with a judge's signature or review by supervisors. To think that a case worker would jeopardize her job just to get revenge on you, doesn't make sense to us. So we have to assume there is something more here.

But if you think you can prove corruption and bias or even incompetence on the part of the case worker, then get an attorney and sue.

Have you asked for a hearing? Have you spoken to the worker's supervisor?

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Originally Posted by ScottGem

No we don't know you and your family. But we do know the system and that checks and balances exist. To assume that a single case worker can act alone without oversight is very hard to believe. Case workers are subject to supervision. Actions taken by case workers, especially when it involves removing children from their home, are made either with a judge's signature or review by supervisors. To think that a case worker would jeopardize her job just to get revenge on you, doesn't make sense to us. So we have to assume there is something more here.

But if you think you can prove corruption and bias or even incompetence on the part of the case worker, then get an attorney and sue.

Have you asked for a hearing? have you spoken to the worker's supervisor?

Every one of those social workers work glove in hand with each other everyone knows that and I will say this much that I did everything right to prove to them that my kids were not at any risk of harm or neglect I co operated with them when they asked me to even worked out a care plan to work towards getting my wee lad back home which in the beginning was the general idea they even asked my partner to be involved to so he did and everything was working out fine right up until December last year and then all of a sudden out of the blue for no reason at all my social worker started to tell lies about my wee lad and my partner making up stories saying that my wee boy didn't want to see my partner anymore because apparently he had scared him with a mask which by the way has never happened and saying that the wee lad was having nightmares and all this kind of talk which simply wasn't true,my partner and my son had a good relationship with each other I was always there to witness this and never at any time did anything like that take place,in any case it was his big brother daniel who had scared him with a mask as it was Halloween and the both of them were playing about in the bedroom scaring each other and just carrying on,my partner wasn't even in the house at the time he was working and it was just me and the two boys who were at home.ive already spoke to the wee lad about this and he didn't have a clue what I was talking about and also told me that he never said anything like that and still wanted to see his stepdad wasn't scared of him of anything and I believe him as I know myself that this did not happen but the social worker has got everyone believing it did happen and that's what is stopping me getting him home,now my partner doesn't get to see dylan no more and every time I see him he always asks about his stepdad and when he can see him again,if my son was so scared of him he wouldn't even be asking things like that in fact he wouldn't even mention his name so that tells me everything I need to know that the social worker is a pure liar and will say and do anything to stop me from getting my son back,she didn't like it because everything was going to good and I had a good chance of getting him back at the next hearing she knew this and decided she would sabotage my chances by telling lies about my partner and the wee lad and that lie is still going on to this very day that is why I'm so furious with her she works glove in hand with my ex partners father i.e. the grandad with whom my son is living with at the moment and he has a terrible vengeance against me like you wouldn't believe all because I split up with his son i.e. the father of my children do you can see the kind of fight I am up against its unbelievable and in humane.I was co operating with them but now I will not work along side someone who tells utter lies about my family and gets away with it like its nothing I have no choice but to go through the courts with this because there is no other way.

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Originally Posted by Angela 21

Every one of those social workers work glove in hand with each other everyone knows that ...

I have no choice but to go through the courts with this cos there is no other way.

First, I have a problem with people who make blanket statements like "everyone knows". Because it is impossible that you have spoken with everyone. It is impossible that you know what everyone knows. And from the answers you have gotten here it should be clear that everyone doesn't agree so you are making an inaccurate statement. I know a few social workers who are dedicated, honest people doing a largely thankless job for little pay. In fact, since it is patently obvious that that statement has to be inaccurate, then you could be accused of deliberately lying the same way you are accusing this social worker. Don't get me wrong, I'm not accusing you of lying, but I'm trying to show you that your accusations might not hold water. Lets look at one specific thing you said. The social worker claimed your son was scared of your partner because he was scared by a Halloween mask. Then you say it was your brother who scared him. So just maybe the social worker got it mixed up and believed what she said. That's what it looks like to me coming at this from an impartial viewpoint.

But you didn't answer my questions. Was there a hearing? Did you talk to her supervisor? Or did you just assume that they would cover for her because "everyone knows" and not bother?

The bottom line though, is you need an attorney to fight this. So go get one. You can give the attorney all the FACTS (not what you think "everyone knows") and they can determine the best strategy for you.

So far all you have said is that the social worker
- doesn't like your partner
- doesn't like that he stands up to her
- claims your youngest was scared by him with a mask.
I just don't believe that this is even the tip of the iceberg. I think you are ranting about the system to cover up the rest of the story. Children don't get taken away because of a scary mask.

You can go online and write your story and leave out whatever you want, but don't expect anyone to be sympathetic when it's pretty obvious that there's more to this.