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  • Aug 8, 2012, 09:59 PM
    Sunny_1985
    virginity test
    I want to know if it is possible through any medical test, to know that when or how long before, any female has lost her virginity, considering that after that she might continued having sex.
  • Aug 8, 2012, 10:24 PM
    Wondergirl
    No.
  • Aug 9, 2012, 05:52 AM
    smoothy
    And I'll second that... NO.
  • Aug 9, 2012, 05:52 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    And I'll second that........NO.


    I'll third the no and add a "why?"
  • Aug 9, 2012, 06:50 AM
    afaroo
    Me too
  • Aug 9, 2012, 06:51 AM
    J_9
    Hello.. this is a 4th. Nope.

    The million dollar question is... Why do you want to know?
  • Aug 9, 2012, 12:17 PM
    Sunny_1985
    I want to know when she lost it... It seems it was about 3-4 years ago... is there any method to confirm it. One more thing that I want to know is that does the woman must have a bleeding when she has sex for the first time?? If not than why?
  • Aug 9, 2012, 12:21 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Sunny_1985 View Post
    I want to know when she lost it......It seems it was about 3-4 years ago....is there any method to confirm it

    No, no way to know. You aren't forthcoming about this, so let me guess. You think she is lying, right? You need to know this information for some reason? What is the reason?
  • Aug 9, 2012, 12:29 PM
    smoothy
    I think its more about his own personal insecurities than it has to do with anything else.

    I feel bad for her.
  • Aug 9, 2012, 12:30 PM
    Sunny_1985
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    No, no way to know. You aren't forthcoming about this, so let me guess. You think she is lying, right? You need to know this information for some reason? What is the reason?

    Yes you are right... I came to know that she got involved with some one 3-4 years ago but I don't know how much... I want to confirm it
  • Aug 9, 2012, 12:32 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Sunny_1985 View Post
    Yes you are right....I came to know that she got involved with some one 3-4 years ago but I dnt know how much.....I want to confirm it

    You can't... simple, plain as that...
  • Aug 9, 2012, 12:35 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Sunny_1985 View Post
    Yes you are right....I came to know that she got involved with some one 3-4 years ago but I dnt know how much.....I want to confirm it


    Vaginas don't notch with every sexual encounter like gunfighters notch the handles of their guns.

    Why don't you trust "her" and, more importantly, why can't you simply ask her? Or if you have asked her, why don't you believe her?
  • Aug 9, 2012, 12:41 PM
    Wondergirl
    Just out of curiosity, are you a virgin?
  • Aug 9, 2012, 01:10 PM
    CravenMorhead
    No. There are medical eximinations that can tell you if the hymen is intact, but if it isn't in tact you can't tell how long it hasn't been intact. You can only tell if it is there nor not.

    The only way to know for sure is to ask her. A full sexual history isn't required but should be provided upon request. Just know that it is perfectly okay for her to tell you nothing or lie. It is none of your business to be honest.

    In case I haven't said it, IT IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.

    You have trust issues, you can't trust her on her word. You want to have physical confirmation of what she is telling you. You can either relax and accept that this has happened and there is not a good god damn thing you can do about it, or you can continue to piss and moan about this and blow it out of proportion.

    I do mean to be harsh.

    Virginity is rarer in some areas compared to others. In North America it is REALLY rare. That's fine. It doesn't matter in the long run and truthfully it is better to be with someone who has a little experience.

    So my best advice is to accept it and drop it.

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