She met him last year in a meet and greet session. She lives in England, we live in US, She's young, but this guy has a strange connection with her. I got out several details from her in a simple chat session.

They met briefly but strangely her wishes come true. This guy's company hosted the biggest bash of the year. The next day was his birthday. He sports a beard.

He looks very nice in it and this girl loves him in this look so she wanted to see him in a suit with this look but without me. His partner always went with him, every year but this year he left her and went alone. He attended every party happily
The girl felt sad that he will bring her and she ll be hurt but he went alone and that made her very happy

Her friend also told me that this girl received a mysterious box with his name on it.
Then once he removed his beard, she was upset and wanted that look again and he grew it again.

He used to wear sunglasses which did not suit his face shape. She did not like those sunglasses on him, and wanted to see his clear blue eyes always and viola he did not wear them again and he mostly stayed off sunglasses when he loved wearing them!

Then again he sported a Mohawk look. She hated it and within a week the Mohawk look was gone!

He took a break in Dec and she had a dream in which she saw him sidelined from work and the earliest reports wrote the same thing-sidelined from work!
She wrote to him on twitter to stop his pretentious family man antics and when he was asked about how he feels being at home( he's suspended) he didn't brag like he would normally do, instead said he's doing training, feel refreshed and ready to return!

Hes 32 she's 21.
IS THEIR CONNECTION ORCHESTRATED FROM HEAVENS?

No! This is a fling, and apparently he's already dating someone;

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His partner always went with him, every year but this year he left her and went alone. He attended every party happily
The girl felt sad that he will bring her and she ll be hurt but he went alone and that made her very happy

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Relationships on the internet, they rarely last. He had a girlfriend and dumped her for this girl? Or is he still dating his "partner" and stringing this young internet chippy along as well?

This is nothing but infatuation. It will soon pass, especially since the girl is very controlling and won't allow him to be himself. When she finally meets him, I doubt she'll like anything about him, or she'll try to change him. That will grow old fast, unless he's that desperate for a girl.

Heaven? No. Sounds more like hell to me.

OMG! This is not an online relationship

She likes everything about him. How is she controlling?
Just because she likes him in a particular look and wants him to keep it or felt that particular look doesn't suit him it that way she's controlling? Omg.

The guy doesn't seem to have problems, he does what she wants, so why are you judging them negatively?

Omg you people just pick out some lines and judge. Leaving the rest of the question

How are you involved in this relationship?

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Originally Posted by bellablaze

OMG! this is not an online relationship

she likes everything about him. how is she controlling?
Just because she likes him in a particular look and wants him to keep it or felt that particular look doesn't suit him it that way shes controlling? omg.

The guy doesnt seem to have problems, he does what she wants, so why are you judging them negatively?

omg you people just pick out some lines and judge. leaving the rest of the question

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I based my post on what you wrote.

How is this not an online relationship? She lives in England and he lives in the US. So how do they date or keep in touch if not online? You said you had a chat session with her. You don't even know her! Why are you so involved in their relationship?

She's controlling because she's constantly telling him what to wear, how to do his hair, etc. etc. Yes, he does what she tells him to do, but that doesn't mean she's not controlling, it just means that he's weak.

Why are you so involved in other people's relationships? First your cousin and his marriage, now your friend? Why does this even concern you? Let them deal with it, work on finding someone of your own to keep you occupied. Sounds like you have too much time on your hands.

Dear I am her friend. They don't EVEN TALK TO EACH OTHER mUCH that too via SMS

That's why I asked if they are soulmates or not because the moment she wishes something he does that!

She never tells him what to wear or what to do, she did not like the mohawk because it did not suit him and within a week he shaved off. He shaved off his beard but the moment she wished him to grow it back, he did so.

Omg this guy is weak, he is 32 years old, very flamboyant very good looking and successful in his job.

He doesn't listen to anyone but the moment she expresses her desire he does it in a jiffy!

That's why I asked if they have a connection.

Wait. So you think that if someone does whatever the other person tells him/her to do, that means they're soul mates? SMH.

That's not how it works. In fact, it's the opposite. She's bossy, and he's weak. A soul mate loves you if you have a beard or not, if you have a mohawk or you're bald, if you wear sunglasses even though you can't see his eyes. A soul mate isn't bossy, but accepts everything about you, not matter what.

She's controlling, and he lets her control him. That's not love, that's ownership.

In spite of writing everything about them the only focus is how controlling she is and how weak he is. I am actually laughing right now

OK so lets assume your soul mate does drugs, and has free sex with every girl he sees so since you are his soul mate you ll accept everything because you are his soulmate go ahead do drugs/have sex with everyone, allowed since we are soul mates if I stop you I don't love you I own you.

Haha.

She just likes him more in a beard and she's controlling. I bet if your hubby says please don't wear that dress you ll say you are so controlling and divorce him.

Do you even know what controlling means?
Restriction, loss of freedom, cutting you from friends/family not that telling you whether this look suits you or not.

The guy has arms full of tattoos, she doesn't like tattoos but she accepts it because she says it his preference to get tattoos.

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you are actually you are just sadistic. inspite of writing everything about them the only focus is how controlling she is and how weak he is. i am actually laughing right now

ok so lets assume your soul mate does drugs, and has free sex with every girl he sees so since you are his soul mate you ll accept everything bc you are his soulmate go ahead do drugs/have sex with everyone, allowed since we are soul mates if i stop you i dont love you i own you.

haha.

she just likes him more in a beard and shes controlling. god you are really dimwitted.

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If the man I love did drugs and has sex with every girl he meets he wouldn't be my soul mate. Those are huge issues, issues I wouldn't accept, and no matter how much I love him, I wouldn't stay in a relationship like that. The fact that he did things like that shows how little he loves me. That's not a "soul mate".

Do you not see the difference between a hair style or wearing sun glasses and drugs and cheating? You can't be that naïve.

I should mention, calling someone dimwitted just for their opinion, not okay. I realize you don't like the fact that I don't agree with you, and since you're not intelligent enough to make a rational argument against what I've posted, you name call to make yourself feel better. But that's not an excuse.

You posted here. You don't have to like the opinions posted, nor do you have to agree with them, but you do have to be respectful to the people that took time out of their lives to answer your question. Don't like what's posted? Ignore it. But be a grown up, put on your big girl panties, and act like a mature human being.

Since you have no respect, I'm done with you. Good luck getting anyone else to offer advice seeing how you treat the people that do.

Good bye.

Fine go away. I don't need your foolish replies just based on a few lines which don't even show she's bossy.

The person who doesn't even know what controlling means shows intelligent you are. I asked a question hoping to get sincere replies and people pick up 2 lines and concoct a whole story of controlling/bossy/weak behavior

Really.

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Let's keep track.

You broke the rules by giving this negative rep for an opinion.

You broke the rules by calling me sadistic and dimwitted.

I've reported your posts to the moderators.