How do I get over my sons father I been knowing him my whole life we been together off and on for four years he was my first everything I still love him and he still loves me but it just seem that we are not made for each other any more and we view things different now... I still yarn to be with him but we tried so many times and it always a dead end so we both decided to stop trying... but I really in my heart want to keep trying but he said he preyed on it and he said that we just will not work