There are times I wonder if this relationship of mine will work? We have not talk for a few days. Last night we did have a descent conversation for the first time. I ask him how he feels about me, his answer was it all depend on what day it is. I am guessing how I talk and treat him with disrespect. I really want this to work. I don't know how to make it work. Should I leave him alone? But, when I do he won't call or text me. Can you guys give me an advice! Please.

Well let him go if he caresfor you he will come bak, if he doesn't hit you up it means he doesn't care for you enough and if you after him ll the time he will get annoyed guys. He is going to think he has you and don't let I be like that because he will treat you wrong I been threw this good luck

Is this the same person?


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Is this the same person?

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Yes he is. I really like him. Trying to be understanding and supportive of his feelings and dislikes. But, last week he told me to go out and meet other people. I wanted to. But, I couldn't do it. So instead I went to a local bar and went home.

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Yes he is. I really like him. Trying to be understanding and supportive of his feelings and dislikes. But, last week he told me to go out and meet other people. I wanted to. But, I couldn't do it. So instead I went to a local bar and went home.

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Not sure what to do anymore. I am so confused!

This doesn't sound like a very good relationship. It's probably best that you move on the way he suggested.

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This doesn't sound like a very good relationship. It's probably best that you move on the way he suggested.

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Last night was actually the first time we had a descent conversation. And he listen to my complains in our relationship and I was thrilled. I don't know will see.

Sounds to me like he does not care one way or the other. Coupled with the fact that he is interested in someone else, your best bet is to move on.
This does not sound like a relationship to me. It sounds like he just tolerates you and you don't want to face the fact that he does not care.

He doesn't sound like he is that interested in you and that he is not feeling your needs of attention. Move on, why beg for someone who is simply not that into you?

This is not a healthy relationship at all.

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This is not a healthy relationship at all.

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I know! He was suppose to come over and see me tonight? He did call but, I ignored his calls. I did not answer! I feel bad though. What if he does like me? And want more than just SEX

Give it a rest. He was supposed to come over... he called but you didn't answer. Stop playing head games.

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Give it a rest. He was supposed to come over...he called but you didn't answer. Stop playing head games.

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I am not playing games with him. I want him to realize that I am more than just sex object. It's why I did not answer his call.

You are both playing games with each other. Time to move on to greener pastures.

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I am not playing games with him. I want him to realize that I am more than just sex object. It's why I did not answer his call.

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I don't think he cares on way or the other. You are acting childish and desperate. Leave him alone.