I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. An when we first got together we would have sex PLENTY of times and he ALWAYS wanted to just as much as me. And now he never wants to. Like we both work and all and don't spend as much time together anymore but I want to every chance we have and he doesn't. Now we only do it once at night and that's because I want to, usually he's like "let's just get it over with so I can sleep" :( I don't know if I'm doing something wrong or something. I know he's not cheating or anything like that. I just want to know if there's any way to make him sexually attracted to me again like he use to be? Someone pleasseeee help me :/

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Originally Posted by Rissssxoxo

I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. An when we first got together we would have sex PLENTY of times and he ALWAYS wanted to just as much as me. And now he never wants to. Like we both work and all and don't spend as much time together anymore but I want to every chance we have and he doesn't. Now we only do it once at night and thats because i want to, usually he's like "let's just get it over with so I can sleep" :( idk if I'm doing something wrong or something. I know he's not cheating or anything like that. I just wanna know if there's any way to make him sexually attracted to me again like he use to be?! Someone pleasseeee help me :/

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You have busy lives. He might be stressed out. It might be a physical problem. Have you talked to him? You're in a relationship and this is just one more thing to discuss.

If he is not sexually attracted to you, if it's not that he's tired or under stress, find out now, not later.

Your heading says your sex life is boring. Is it boring - or isn't there enough sex? Those are different things.