I've been with my fiancé going on three years now, and we have a beautiful baby girl, and a house. He has had relationship problems in the past where he was cheated on and was hurt really bad by that. So he says he's ready to settle and get married but yet he keeps putting it off. Why is this?? Every time I bring it up he says we first have to blank and blank or he changes the subject entirely. I'm confused!! And recently he told me he wasn't emotionally attached to myself or our baby who is now three months. Should I stick it out or move on. Any advice would helpful. Thanks

Of course you stick it out. You explore his mind and find out what he expects of the future, and that alone is years of talking.

The first few months after a life changing event is sorting things out, and making adjustments to the new situation.

What you thought only women freak out after a child is born?? Men do to!

Why would he want to bother with marriage? That's so... so... so permanent! He has it all now.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Of course you stick it out. You explore his mind and find out what he expects of the future, and that alone is years of talking.

The first few months after a life changing event is sorting things out, and making adjustments to the new situation.

What you thought only women freak out after a child is born????? Men do to!

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Thanks for your help!