No water coming into the house checked pressure tank it is empty also pressure in tank. Is there a relay I can check

Check the breaker. If the breaker is on, then check your contact points in the switch, a little grey box connected to a small pipe and electrical wires. If the points are closed (touching), then the pump should be running.

Also, your switch might have a reset lever. If it does, then use that to reset the switch.

In agree. You either have a tripped breaker,( and if it is check to see why) or a faulty control box. ( if you have power to the box the points should be closed if the pump's calling for for power. Before you replace the control check the small tube coming from the pump foe a clog. Good luck, Tom