Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a month and he has done nothing but compliment me and practically worshiped me and I like it when he dose that. But I try to prove I love him but I don't seem to do it right cause he asked me "you don't love me do you" and I'm like yes I do and he tells me I don't show it. :( It makes me feel bad when he tells me that.

How can I prove I love him with out going places and spending money??

Bake brownies or cookies for him. Guys consider actions like that the right way to show love ("he tells me I don't show it"), but don't count mushy words as important for them to hear.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Bake brownies or cookies for him. Guys consider actions like that the right way to show love ("he tells me I don't show it"), but don't count mushy words as important for them to hear.

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Ok well we don't see each other a lot do when I do see him do I hug him and/ or kiss him?? Also if I cook the cookies or brownies at my house then go to his house and knock on the door and say what?

How old are you ? Why don't you see him that much if he is a real boyfriend

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Originally Posted by Babyboo1234

Ok well we don't see each other a lot do when I do see him do I hug him and/ or kiss him ????? Also if I cook the cookies or brownies at my house then go to his house and knock on the door and say what ??

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Put them in a bakery box and put a big ribbon on it and hand them to him while saying, "I love you this much!"

How do you know when you should have sex? I have been dating my for almost a mount and I do love him I know that for a fact but I don't know if it's time yet how do I know??

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How old are you ? why don't you see him that much if he is a real boyfriend

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I am 19 and we have jobs and school that's why and I am a cattle farmer and it's kind of hard to see him wile dealing with my farm...

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Put them in a bakery box and put a big ribbon on it and hand them to him while saying, "I love you this much!"

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Thank you :)

This is not how to prove to him that he is the best boyfriend, is he pressure you? That could be what he is trying to do by saying or asking if you love him.

Having sex is not showing him anything except that you are easy to get into bed, esp at just a month

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

This is not how to prove to him that he is the best boyfriend, is he presure you? that could be what he is trying to do by saying or asking if you love him.


having sex is not showing him anything except that you are easy to get into bed, esp at just a month

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Well we have known each other for 5 going on 6 years and we have talked a long time I just don't know if sex is right yet but if he dose pressure me what should I do??

The right time for sexual intercourse is when you are prepared to have a child. Not anytime sooner. And after dating for a month only is definitely to soon for sexual intimacy.

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the right time for sexual intercourse is when you are prepared to have a child. Not anytime sooner. And after dating for a month only is definitely to soon for sexual intimacy.

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How long in a relashionship do I needa be to have sex

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How long in a relashionship do I needa be to have sex

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You wait for more of a commitment however long that takes, and not just in words that sound good to hear.

How about just waiting for 6 months to a year until he has proved he loves you with deeds, and actions and not just words, or thinks you don't love him and wants you to prove your love, with your body. If he doesn't believe you dump him.

Love needs NO proof and he should be happy with the gestures of affections you do give him.

If he cares he will wait forever, or until you get married. A month is only dating, to see if this is love it or not, and that takes a lot longer than a month. A month is only enough time to fall for words that are BS, and he is gone after he gets all he wants and you are heart broken, and ashamed, and maybe pregnant.

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You wait for more of a commitment however long that takes, and not just in words that sound good to hear.

How about just waiting for 6 months to a year until he has proved he loves you with deeds, and actions and not just words, or thinks you don't love him and wants you to prove your love, with your body. If he doesn't believe you dump him.

Love needs NO proof and he should be happy with the gestures of affections you do give him.

If he cares he will wait forever, or until you get married. A month is only dating, to see if this is love it or not, and that takes a lot longer than a month. A month is only enough time to fall for words that are BS, and he is gone after he gets all he wants and you are heart broken, and ashamed, and maybe pregnant.

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Well what should I do if he try's to pressure me??

Tell him to forget it. Used for sex is not what you are about.Then tell him to prove he is a man and respect your wishes to wait. If the pressure continues, DUMP THE HORN DOG. Who needs that?

When a guy pressures you early on, and wants you to prove your love for him with your body, those sweet words and attention hide selfish intentions. Don't fall for dumb BS because you know and like him... and the male attention.

Make him RESPECT you, and your wishes.

If the fool cannot appreciate fresh baked cookies, dump him. Don't let him play on your inexperience.

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There is no hard and fast rule. But sex is not a recreational sport. It is something to be shared between two people in a long term committed relationship. One month doesn't sound like a long term committed relationship.