My boyfriend does stuff in the middle of the night, like sexually ad I know he does it as he does it to me, and me, my best friend and my boyfriend slept in the same bed, and she said he tried it on with her, but when she got up she did not mention anything to him and was all happy in the morning and did not say what the heck!! She said because she was shocked, but when my boyfriend said something horrible to her all of a sudden a month later, she comes out with that he tried to rape me,
I am having his baby and I am in love with him, but I don't know where to go with this help me!!

My only question here would be why did this girl feel it was only worth mentioning ONE MONTH later when he said something horrible to her, probably in the heat of the moment when he was drunk? Rape is a very serious allegation and I doubt very much your boyfriend would try and rape someone whilst you were in the same bed as him! I find this girl to be very strange and very manipulative and I have never met her! Although, I genuinely believe you shouldn't be in this position in the first place allowing your friend to sleep in the same bed as your boyfriend and you. In conclusion, I think she is full of , embarrassed by whatever it is your boyfriend has said to her, attention seeking and just an evil big mouthed dangerous girl!

I see thanks

I think you've got an interesting crowd of individuals that you decide to hang out with. I guess at this point you need to decide who you trust..

"Believe none of what you hear and half of what you see."

Interesting all this rape stuff...

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Interesting all this rape stuff...

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It's sad really.

What is sad?? Him or her

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what is sad???? him or her

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All the rape that is woven into your life.

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what is sad????

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Your choice of friends.

Mmm I feel she is saying it because he said something harsh because if he tried to rape you, you would say no, that's what makes it no, but she also sayed my boyfriend tried to pull her trousers down and she moves a little to get him to stop but said nothing, but my boyfriend does that to me too in the middle of the night, so I am aware of it but I think he fort she was me by mistake, but is that me making excuses up for him as I don't want to loose him, or am I in the right to say why she had to come out with it now

Seriously? How old are all of you?

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mmm i feel she is saying it because he said something harsh because if he tried to rape you, you would say no, thats what makes it no, but she also sayed my bf tried to pull her trousers down and she moves a little to get him to stop but said nothing, but my bf does that to me too in the middle of the night, so i am aware of it but i think he fort she was me by mistake, but is that me making excuses up for him as i dnt wanna loose him, or am i in the right to say why she had to come out with it now

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How old are you guys?

I am 20

And you let your friend sleep in the same bed as you with your boyfriend? I think you've got to rethink your friendship strategy.

No we were all in the bed, I was in the middle, it's a big bed you can fit 4 people in it

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I meant with you and your boyfriend, I guess I misworded what I said. I think letting your friend sleep in the same bed as you and your boyfriend is a bit stupid and childish. Basically, if your boyfriend is attracted to your friend which is likely, then you're just asking for him to go touching her.

Keep your friends out of your bed with him and maybe it won't happen. Plain and simple.