I was in love with a guy. His neither hot nor cold. He always behalf funny. We have many thing in common. His older than me for 5yrs. We are both graduate and working class. Am 30yrs of age. We also work the same company,but different branch. We neva kiss or being together in a secret place before. Spent almost 10month in relationship. We communicate on phone and I run to him for help whenever I have chanllenges in my duty,being a senior colleaque. His always there for me. But I can't read his mind. I refused to make love with me,because he said he doesn't want to cheat on me. He said he has girl friend. Tomorrow,he tell me I want to destroy his relaationship. Next tomorrow he treat me good and tell me to still hold on with my hope that only God can direct him. Am comfuse. Hope am not lost. I love him, want him. But hgis cold and hot. At time he tell me am pretending that he want to know me more. His saying this bcos he talk to me any how when his upset. And his my confident. My teacher and my best friend. Am tired. I don't want to judge him.though we have neva share anything together, but that doesn't meant he cares or reserved me for house wife. Please help me.

Why are you giving everything to a guy who already has a girlfriend, and gives you almost nothing in return? Stop being played by this guy!