We were in love with each ather and were together for a year and half... he was really controlling me over every thing if I was not going out with him staying home he was thinking that I went out with my friends which I didn't... he was thinking I'm lying which I was really honest to him but he was unsecure.. we brokeup a month ago but I still love him but he says he is not ready for relationship .what shoulder I do?

What should you do? You move on unless you want to be his doormat.

It's apparent he is not ready for a relationship because he does not know how to treat a woman.

I saw him at the party the ather night then called me said he just wanted to talk to me... then called me in the mor wanted to see me and I did spent the whole day I thaught we will get back together but when I was leaving he said he is not ready for relationship... but then he called me couple times today I didn't answer his calls... I just texted him told him that why he wants to talk when he's not ready for relationship with me I'm not a white to have sex with him after when he dumped me without any reason

Sorry I mean whore* not white