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  • Aug 1, 2012, 08:33 PM
    MissHated
    Should I forgive my best friend of 5 years?
    After I went out with a guy and we broke up she started talking to him like going on the phone and talking to each other daily.. Even if she knew I still liked him, after a few months I got Over it an apologized to her for getting mad at the fact (since we never spoke for a month or two) then when I apoligized she told my ex about all the stuff I told her after apologizing! Like what the hell? I never even knew they were still talking after knowing I was mad at her for 2 months.. I thought she would stop.. I don't know if they still talk now... Should I or no?
    #teens #problems
  • Aug 1, 2012, 09:39 PM
    teacherjenn4
    Have you told her how upset you are because she talks behind your back? Can you trust her with your secrets?
  • Aug 1, 2012, 09:55 PM
    MissHated
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    Have you told her how upset you are because she talks behind your back? Can you trust her with your secrets?

    Yes I have, we apologized to each other and then right after she calls him and tells him the stuff I just told her after apologizing! Like who does that! And I did trust her with my secrets.. But right now, we're not on speaking terms.. (I know she told him because he told his cousins which his cousin told me)
  • Aug 1, 2012, 10:10 PM
    teacherjenn4
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by MissHated View Post
    Yes I have, we apologized to each other and then right after she calls him and tells him the stuff I just told her after apologizing! Like who does that! And I did trust her with my secrets.. But right now, we're not on speaking terms.. (I know she told him because he told his cousins which his cousin told me)

    That doesn't sound like much of a friend to me. Has she done anything like this in the past?
  • Aug 1, 2012, 10:17 PM
    MissHated
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    That doesn't sound like much of a friend to me. Has she done anything like this in the past?

    No.. But she has hid stuff from me and we're suppose to be Bestfriends.. I miss her though, talking to her and venting to her and even hanging out with her.. But I don't know if she's worth another chance..
  • Aug 1, 2012, 10:39 PM
    teacherjenn4
    Not if you can't trust her.

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