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Need some dating advice please

Hey, I'm 14 and been single for at least 2 years :( anyway I want to know how to get a girl that I want, I am very shy at talking to new people especially girls :S so I would like some advice from prefferably a female but guys would help to thanks ;)

You have been single for two years and you're all of 14? How did you get the other girl you had?
You don't "get " girls. At your age you make friends. And you don't always get what you want.

I think you're still young to get girls. Just make friends with them . I mean I'm 14 and like you but still I think it's too early

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Originally Posted by aliiicowan737

Hey, im 14 and been single for at least 2 years :( anyway I want to know how to get a girl that I want, I am very shy at talking to new people especially girls :S so I would like some advice from prefferably a female but guys would help to thanks ;)

There are three categories: married, single, legally separated.

You've been single since you were 12? And before that?

Honestly just talk to her,girls like attention,trat her as if you are interested in her feelings,and don't be a weiner to her and just speak to her

P.S. also 14,dating is special get to know her not her looks

I'm a 17 year old girl, and just thought I'd share my opinion!

Make sure you really pay attention when she's talking, it always helps to have something to talk about, and if you keep asking questions about the details of what she's excited about, doing next weekend, where she's going on vacation, etc. it not only keeps the conversation going, but shows her that you really do pay attention when she's talking to you, or out loud in class or something! I could write a whole long answer about how to talk to her, but it would go on for hours! I hope this helps at least a little! Don't be too nervous to talk to her, a girl loves any attention she gets, and once you talk to her about her interests for a while, you'll have her attention.

This kid is 14 people!

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

This kid is 14 people!

I'm not saying he should do all the things a boyfriend does, but honestly, I remember at 14, everyone had 'boyfriends' and 'girlfriends', and it's pretty normal. He hasn't expressed any desire to do things other than talk to the girl, which is all he should be doing! If anything, the replies have maybe given him some ideas on how to talk to girls, if not for right now, then for the future. Really, everything on the replies has been along the lines of just how to be a girl's friend. Not 'in the friend zone', which is what I'm sure the OP would think if you said that, but if you're friends with a girl now, it'll be that much easier to eventually work up the courage to ask her out! I don't think there's anything wrong with a 14 year old boy liking a girl. Then again, I'm only 17, but if you think about it, they're at the age where they're entering high school, so it seems normal to me. That's kind of when all of the people I know started 'dating'. Hope this helps a little?

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Originally Posted by BrookeK16

I'm not saying he should do all the things a boyfriend does, but honestly, I remember at 14, everyone had 'boyfriends' and 'girlfriends', and it's pretty normal. He hasn't expressed any desire to do things other than talk to the girl, which is all he should be doing! If anything, the replies have maybe given him some ideas on how to talk to girls, if not for right now, then for the future. Really, everything on the replies has been along the lines of just how to be a girl's friend. Not 'in the friend zone', which is what I'm sure the OP would think if you said that, but if you're friends with a girl now, it'll be that much easier to eventually work up the courage to ask her out! I don't think there's anything wrong with a 14 year old boy liking a girl. Then again, I'm only 17, but if you think about it, they're at the age where they're entering high school, so it seems normal to me. That's kind of when all of the people I know started 'dating'. Hope this helps a little?

I believe you totally misread the answers. I'm not sure it's appropriate for you to criticize other people's advice.

Where do you see he was given advice on anything other than befriending females?

I continue to find his statements that he's been single since he was 12 to a little - odd. What was he before that? As I said, there are only 3 categories.

I loved your "how to talk to girls advice." This post, not at all.

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Originally Posted by BrookeK16

I'm not saying he should do all the things a boyfriend does, but honestly, I remember at 14, everyone had 'boyfriends' and 'girlfriends', and it's pretty normal. He hasn't expressed any desire to do things other than talk to the girl, which is all he should be doing! If anything, the replies have maybe given him some ideas on how to talk to girls, if not for right now, then for the future. Really, everything on the replies has been along the lines of just how to be a girl's friend. Not 'in the friend zone', which is what I'm sure the OP would think if you said that, but if you're friends with a girl now, it'll be that much easier to eventually work up the courage to ask her out! I don't think there's anything wrong with a 14 year old boy liking a girl. Then again, I'm only 17, but if you think about it, they're at the age where they're entering high school, so it seems normal to me. That's kind of when all of the people I know started 'dating'. Hope this helps a little?

At 17, whether a girl or boy, you are on an entirely different level than a 14 year old boy (who is talking about being single since he was 12) What a 17 year old would find interesting would not even apply to a 14 year old girl or boy.