The story is... my boyfriend and I have been together for a few months now since his break up with his sons mother. He was staying with her until she kicked him out. After staying with his family for a month, we both decided that he should stay with me. At first it was fun an exciting until money issues came along. He would get upset if I couldn't give him any money and he also was a indian giver when we got into fights. He is very insecure and controlling. One day I got fed up and I kicked him myself. He has been gone for a few weeks now. We talk everyday and see each other every other day. The thing is he wants to move back in with me and I don't want him to at all... I don't know how to say it without getting him upset. Note: He's staying with a older lady that likes him and wants us to break up... suggestions please!!

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Originally Posted by tiffanyswagger

I dont know how to say it without getting him upset.

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Folks who are insecure will get upset over anything. Clearly tell him that you do not want him living with you and that is final.

I'm not sure why you needed advice on this.

How is he still your boyfriend if he's living with another woman who wants to destroy your seemingly toxic relationship?

This sounds like a mess. I wouldn't even bother being with him... let him live with the older lady and have his fun there.

I vote no on 0his moving in with you. In fact, I vote no for him even being in your life.

Like odinn7 said, let the old lady have him. She'll probably be posting a question here soon, wondering how to get rid of him.