:( My daughter is 3 1/2 years old, she was born with a chromosomal deletion (q10) (26.3), she has motor problems along with a speech impairment, It has been very hard on her, she gets frusterated often, smacking, screaming, etc... any advice would be much apprieciated. Please someone help... :mad:

I'm no expert but I have heard that wrapping them tightly in a blanket and holding them can help. They may yell and scream but you can safely hold them and talk to them. This way they won't hurt themselves or others. Talk to a specialist of her condition or a knowledgeable psychologist for better options though. Swaddling can't hurt though. Don't yell back though. Talk quietly or even whisper. Her curiosity to hear what you are saying might cause the behaviour to stop.