My daughter has borderline personality disorder. I have always blamed myself for this and still do. I see a psychiatrist and a psychologist as she is not talking to me. She is angry that for a while there I was drinking alcohol to try to help myself to forget about the damage I must have done to her. She has a little daughter who loves me to bits but she won't talk to me and won't let me talk to my granddaughter. I know I was sometimes too stern with her when she was growing up. As a single parent with absolutely no support I sometimes got angry when she would blame me for her problems at school or her relationships with others. She would tell me she hated me and she hurt me a lot. I continue to put money into her account to help her with the rent. I email her as she has her mobile turned off all the time. I tell her how much I love her and my granddaughter and have apologised time and time again for anything that I have said that may have upset her. She texted me a few weeks ago and told me she has been advised to cut all ties with me. She said I was poison. She told me that my father loved her more than he loved me even though I looked after him. I have done everything I can for her but she won't talk to me. Last time it was a year that she didn't communicate with me. I don't know what to do either.
