My boyfreind and I have been together for 7 years when I moved in with him after our son was born we would have sex every day and night and we would also have oral sex as wel, but latley he won't let me touch him down there and pushes my hand away if I try to grop him, we don't have sex anymore its been 3 years since we have done anything. I love him very much but I don't know what to do..

Be very worried, men want sex... ALL MEN! Small men, big men, gay men, they all want sex... Either he is getting it else where or he has a serious problem down south... Talk with him.. If u can't even talk with him then I don't know what to tell you.

Wow, that really isn't normal. Sit down and have a talk with him, don't jump to conclusions just yet. See what he has to say first, then if he starts acting suspicious, I'd take it to the next level and get straight to the point.

Could he have a medical issue that's preventing him from getting and maintaining an erection? Have you discussed this with him? Have you told him how you feel about it?

For a relationship to work you have to be willing and able to communicate with each other, about anything, especially sex.

Sit down and talk to him about this. If you don't, I can't see this relationship lasting.