My partner of 7 years is usually a sweetheart and most of the time quite respectful... but when he is with his friends they seem to end up at the strippers. He knows I don't like him going, I understand that's what happens when your mates get married and I'm fine with a bucksparty, however every time they go to the football, (perhaps half a dozen times a year) they end up at a strip club. The boys don't think it is a big deal but I believe its disrespectful...

These girls get the boys quite revved up and they leave these places quite horny, especially if they are getting privates, which they are. Yes I'm am jealous and if a group of males were turning me on it would be inappropriate too. Just don't know why boys don't see it from their girlfriends perspectives :( Having this problem as we speak

To top it off these friends of his and myself have organized a surprise birthday party for my boyfriend this weekend and because of this stripper problem that is very current has made this birthday thing awkward!!

Is this enough to end a relationship? Am I being dramatic? I'm confused