Well, I'm going to say my age because it's not important but I was seeing my ex boyfriend for five months. He did love me, cared for me and so far (he had loss of girlfriends, using them all... for like a day or two) mine and his relationship was the longest and he didn't use me. But then he was going to cheat on me and I finished him for it... he blocked me on Facebook and then after a week unblocked me... and a day later he added me back! We never chatted again.

Now at school he hits me and then in his eyes I can see that he regrets it, however laughs it off. He calls me an "ugly rat" and when I call him something back he looks hurt and starts a real argument with me.

I don't know though... does he really hate me or does he try his best to not love me? HELP!

If he disliked you (save hate for warmongers, murderers, and child molesters) he'd ignore you. He's just being a typical young person who hasn't learned much yet.

You may think age doesn't matter, but it does.

If you're under the age of 14, it means he's acting his age.

If you're 15 or older, it just means he's immature and not ready for a relationship.