My boyfriend broke up with me after 8 years because we don't live together. I own a condo and he rents his own apartment. I always planned that we would buy a place together but his lack of money and inability to get a mortgage has prevented it. We tried living in my condo but it is too small for both of us plus two cats. He told me that we are done if I don't list my condo within the month. I asked him to help me look for something to buy (he's a real estate agent) and he told me to get another agent because he is tired of my pickiness and doesn't want to go on a crazy house search with me. After 8 years I still love him but this makes me question things a little. I think he is bullying me... He thinks I am need to find someone else that makes more money... What do you think?

After 8 years there are more issues than the condo if you are not living together.

Too small ? Sorry you both were not willing to adjust to the changes.

Or you rent your condo and move in with him ?

His term "picky" also shows a lot on how he feels most likely about your attitude and perhaps other issues in life.

I would say keep your condo and lose your waste of the last 8 years.

It gets more complicated. I have been bailing him out financially for the past 5 years. I hesitated moving in with him cause I could not afford to support both of us in case he decided to slack off...