Im a 20 year old female, and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We just recently started having sex its always been hard to get me ready to go, but now it seams like when he finally does get me frisky if he stops for too long (o say a sec or two) I all of a sudden lose the arousel feeling. Does anyone know why this might be happaning, or what I can do to keep aroused long enough for him to enter me?