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  • Jul 29, 2012, 07:58 PM
    licious92
    I need to know what exact day I got pregnant!!
    Well I had sex wit my boyfriend on April 15 n we broke up so I was hurt and on April 20 I hooked up wit this other guy the thing is that I got my period that same day ( not normal) just spotting and now I'm pregnant I want to know who.is the father of my baby please help.. In may I didn't get my period anymore my due date is jan 25
  • Jul 29, 2012, 08:03 PM
    gramastaxi1
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by licious92 View Post
    well I had sex wit my boyfriend on april 15 n we broke up so I was hurt n on april 20 I hooked up wit this other guy the thing is dat I got my period dat same day ( not normal) just spotting n now im pregnant I wanna know who.is the father of my baby please help.. In may I didnt get my period anymore my due date is jan 25

    Count from may to Jan. That is only 8 months so you go back to April and it will be 9 months. This is the best way I can answer you question. I hope it helps.
  • Jul 29, 2012, 08:10 PM
    Alty
    You had sex within days with these two men. There's no way to know who the father is other than a DNA test. No way at all! No one can even guess! Due dates can be off by 2 weeks either way. Either 2 weeks earlier, or two weeks later In other words, a month. You had sex with both of these men in less than a week, so there's no way to tell you who the father is, it's one or the other.

    You'll have to wait until the baby is born and do a paternity test.
  • Jul 29, 2012, 08:13 PM
    odinn7
    Ders no way for us 2 really no. You will need to have a paternity test done once da baby is born. It's all 2 close in time that you were wit both guys so it could be either 1 of them..
  • Jul 29, 2012, 08:19 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by odinn7 View Post
    Ders no way 4 us 2 really no. U will need to have a paternity test done once da baby is born. It's all 2 close in time dat u were wit both guys so it could b either 1 of them..

    Does she really hve to wate? What if da first guy didn't kum in her?

    Of wow! I can't do this! How did you write an entire post using this moronic chat speak? People actually do this without thinking? Wait, I think I just figured out how. No further need to explain. ;)
  • Jul 29, 2012, 08:32 PM
    gramastaxi1
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by gramastaxi1 View Post
    Count from may to Jan. That is only 8 months so you go back to April and it will be 9 months. This is the best way I can answer you question. I hope it helps.

    Sorry it didn't help. The only other way is DNA test.
  • Jul 29, 2012, 08:44 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by gramastaxi1 View Post
    Sorry it didn't help. The only other way is DNA test.

    You see that's where your answer was wrong. There is no "other" way. There was only one way to begin with, and that's a DNA test. That's why you got the disagree, because your post was factually incorrect.
  • Jul 29, 2012, 08:52 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    I am sorry, to sum this up, there is no test you can do now that will tell you, conception dates will give you a date, give or take a week at best. So sex with two people within 5 days, you are going to have to wait till the baby is born and do a DNA test.
  • Jul 29, 2012, 09:32 PM
    licious92
    Thanks for helping
  • Jul 30, 2012, 02:05 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by licious92 View Post
    well I had sex wit my boyfriend on april 15 n we broke up so I was hurt n on april 20 I hooked up wit this other guy the thing is dat I got my period dat same day ( not normal) just spotting n now im pregnant I wanna know who.is the father of my baby please help.. In may I didnt get my period anymore my due date is jan 25


    The worst thing you can do is have sex wit another guy to get even with that first guy.
  • Jul 30, 2012, 02:49 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    The worst thing u can do is have sex wit another guy to get even with dat first guy.

    Judy writing in chat speak? OMG! The world is ending! Everyone take cover!

    My favorite line when dealing with chat speak;

    "It's before, not b4. You speak English, not bingo". :)
  • Jul 30, 2012, 02:52 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    Judy writing in chat speak? OMG! The world is ending! Everyone take cover!

    My favorite line when dealing with chat speak;

    "It's before, not b4. You speak English, not bingo". :)


    It wasn't EZ 2 do that.

    The sheer effort made my virginia hurt.
  • Jul 30, 2012, 03:07 PM
    ScottGem
    There is only ONE way to know the exact date of conception. That would be if you had sex ONCE and only once during the 2-3 month period when conception was probable.

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