My relationship with my father is strange,I love him but I don't particularly like him as a person.We just don't get along we debate about every thing.I try and try to do my best for him but he just doesn't aprove of me .He is so annoying,he gets up me for no reason what so ever,I hate it.What should I do

Live with it until you move out.

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My relationship with my father is strange,I love him but i don't particularly like him as a person.We just don't get along we debate about every thing.I try and try to do my best for him but he just doesn't aprove of me .He is so annoying,he gets up me for no reason what so ever,I hate it.What should i do

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Where is your Mom in this scenario.

I have a really weird relationship with my dad too :P Just try not to get him mad too much, just be neutral.. Stand your ground when needed but don't try to pick a fight all the time, getting him all grumpy won't do it ><

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Look I used to have a weird strange unusual... relationship with my father. But now I am doing anything he wants me to do and that's what made him start loving me and and staying at my side in an argument with my mother , I started trying not to ask for a lot and I started to stay on his side with an argument with anyone and when you something wrong don't prove the opp. But admit it which makes him think that he won. And then he would get easy with you and RESPECT you...

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look I used to have a weird strange unusual .... relationship with my father. But now i am doing anything he wants me to do and thats what made him start loving me and and staying at my side in an argument with my mother , i started trying not to ask for a lot and i started to stay on his side with an argument with anyone and when you something wrong dont prove the opp. but admit it which makes him think that he won. And then he would get easy with you and RESPECT you .....

Mr Answers :) Hope it will help you

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This is playing one parent against the other - he takes your side when you argue with your mother because you take his side when he's in arguments?

Yes, that's playing parent against parent.

I also have this type of relationship with my father.
I just do what he asks me to do,and I don't tall to him much. Yes, I love him but its kind of useless to talk to him. He is always in his own world, and don't want to listen If anyone is in a problem.
Jus try ignoring his annoying habits, do watever u want to do. Do what he asks u to do for him.