My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and he has never put his hands on me. But one day we were really arguing and it was getting worse, he followed me from room to room. He wouldn't let me leave out of the bathroom and he was blocking all the doors to every room. And he's a very large man so its not easy to move him.
Well while we were arguing I was pointing in his face but I never touched him and I was back at least 3ft away from him, when out of nowhere he pushes me and held me down on the bed by my wrist with all his weight on. And later that night when I was telling how pissed I was and that he will never put his hands on me again, he tells me that it was my fault because I was pointing at him that's why he pushed me.
Is that a sign that I should be worried about the future? But he hasn't done anything like that since that day!