Well my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months now , we've been through hell and back to make us work in a relationship.
He's the most loving and caring boyfriend I've ever had and I love him with all my heart but there's just one thing I can not stand when I'm out in public with him... he perves too much . Like I'm fine if he has a look and does what men do , but he keeps looking. Every so often he'd look back and make me feel uncomfortable. Id look straight into his eyes and try and have a conversation but he just looks around like I'm in the road of him perving . I've spoken to him about it but he continues to do it and says he didn't do anything. This is really giving me second thoughts about our relationship. I'm not the jealous type but if he can't even respect me in public and not make me feel uncomfortable . I don't know what to do? Help me please :(

You need to take control woman! You need to tell him that he needs to stop, and that it makes you feel uncomfortable. If he doesn't respect that, well you need to make him realize that he is going to lose you. Tell him it hurts, and you don't feel respected. Let him know your not just his girlfriend, that you're a human and that his "perving" is hurtfull. Let him go for a while, and he'll come running back. If he doesn't, he's a waste of time.

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Thank you for your advice , I have spoken to him and told him maybe we should have a break to figure things out me

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Thank you for your advice , I've spoken to him and basically told him we should really have a break to figure out what we need to do about this while situation. I told him before I'm not going to stick around for much longer if this is all he's going to do when we are out and about .
He just breaks down and cries , tells me he doesn't want to things to end etc... but once I see he's changing the way he acts in public around me then we can maybe work things out . Until then he can suffer for abit . I'm sounding harsh but really I'm the one whose getting hurt all the time . He may show his soft side when it comes to us talking about stuff like this , its just I'm not giving in because I know nothing will change if I don't give it time... erhhhh wish me luck

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Originally Posted by Megamuffin

thank you for your advice , I've spoken to him and basically told him we should really have a break to figure out what we need to do about this while situation. I told him before I'm not going to stick around for much longer if this is all he's going to do when we are out and about .
He just breaks down and cries , tells me he doesn't want to things to end etc.... but once I see he's changing the way he acts in public around me then we can maybe work things out . until then he can suffer for abit . I'm sounding harsh but really I'm the one whose getting hurt all the time . He may show his soft side when it comes to us talking about stuff like this , its just I'm not giving in because I know nothing will change if I don't give it time .... erhhhh wish me luck

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Keep it up! Good luck!