My boyfriend of 15 years broke up with me, he was cheating on me with another girl as he said to me he fooled around and fell in love. I have been trying so hard to get over him, friends, gym, even dating. Nothing is helping. I am starting to feel like the only way to make this pain go away is to take a bunch of pills. I am in so much pain. I need help and I have no clue as to where to turn.

Killing yourself is stupid enough but to kill yourself over some idiot that was cheating on you? No way.

I know that right now it seems like it will be impossible to make it through this but you will... and you will be better off after some time and you will eventually realize this. You will see that life is better without that jerk in it. You will eventually look back and wonder why you ever felt this way.

Give it time. It's OK to hurt, that is normal. Give it time and you'll be OK.

Why hand him even more power? Take back your power, get your rear in gear, and how about doing some volunteer work at an animal shelter, nursing home, library, or hospital? I'll give you more details -- how about it?

You have been dating for 15 years, why no marriage during that time ?

Sorry you had to go through this but its going to take a long time to get over such a long relationship. You just have to keep doing what you are doing for a while longer, and have some very good family and friends to support you, and vent to.

Has to be tough for things to end like they did, and anyone would be devastated for quite some time to come, but keep it moving and as it gets better, you will be glad you did.

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Originally Posted by odinn7

Killing yourself is stupid enough but to kill yourself over some idiot that was cheating on you? No way.

I know that right now it seems like it will be impossible to make it through this but you will...and you will be better off after some time and you will eventually realize this. You will see that life is better without that jerk in it. You will eventually look back and wonder why you ever felt this way.

Give it time. It's ok to hurt, that is normal. Give it time and you'll be ok.

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So true

There are two ways in dealing this situation, either you go the bad way or the good way, you deserve better and better you will receive once you take the good road

Don't resort to kill yourself for him. Personally I would smoke straight for one night and after that agree to let all the go