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  • Jul 26, 2012, 02:07 PM
    Michelle1996
    I really need help...
    I've never really had a boyfriend, but a few months ago there was this guy at school who said he liked me. I've known this guy for a while, almost six years. He's a year younger than me tho'. But we started talking on the phone, and I really started liking him too, but then he lied to me and I got really mad. We didn't talk for almost two weeks, then he apologized and then we met one night, best night of my life. Then a few days later we had another fight, we didn't talk for a week, this same thing has happen 5-6 times now. If not more!

    The latest fight was two weeks ago, he texted me and said that he was sorry and if I wanted to try again, we could try again. Stupid as I am I agreed. He said he had missed me so so so much and that he was really really sorry. Now he won't text, call me or give me any attention. I keep thinking of him, all the time. I'm stuck and I've texted him before but he's being ice cold. So I'm stuck hoping he'll text me, ask me if I want to hang out. But he never does. He's caused me a lot of pain, it's almost not worth getting involved again. Should I give up or just wait?
  • Jul 26, 2012, 02:22 PM
    jellybeans1
    I think you should try and give up if you are fighting that much. Most likely it will happen more, and more often. You will probably go through lots of guys till you find someone you truly connect with and who treats you like you're a princess. If you are just getting hurt and waiting around it isn't worth it.
  • Jul 26, 2012, 03:04 PM
    Michelle1996
    Thank you so much for replying! Really means a lot to me, how should I tell him?
  • Jul 26, 2012, 03:20 PM
    talaniman
    Give up, 5 fights is enough. Leave him alone, and eventually you will find a better guy to hang out with. Fighting is no fun.
  • Jul 26, 2012, 05:30 PM
    Michelle1996
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Give up, 5 fights is enough. Leave him alone, and eventually you will find a better guy to hang out with. Fighting is no fun.

    Thank you so much, how should I tell him, that I'm not in love with him anymore? By text? You have no idea how helpful this was to me, thank you!
  • Jul 26, 2012, 09:33 PM
    talaniman
    In light that he is ignoring you, just forget him until he contacts you, and ignore him. Sound fair? What, you need a formal dumping or something?

    Know its over and walk away with no fan fare, or drama. Tell yourself ITS DONE!!
  • Jul 26, 2012, 09:44 PM
    rshreya00
    I know the feeling of liking a younger guy
    But never let a younger guy diss u like that
    Its just not worth it

    You should tell him in person and explain that it is not working out
  • Jul 26, 2012, 09:59 PM
    teacherjenn4
    Time to end this relationship. Too much drama! He's not worth your time.
  • Jul 27, 2012, 01:50 AM
    Michelle1996
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    Time to end this relationship. Too much drama! He's not worth your time.

    You're right thanks :))
  • Jul 27, 2012, 01:51 AM
    Michelle1996
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    In light that he is ignoring you, just forget him until he contacts you, and ignore him. Sound fair? What, you need a formal dumping or something?

    Know its over and walk away with no fan fare, or drama. Tell yourself ITS DONE!!!

    Yeah thank you so much for the help! :)
  • Jul 27, 2012, 01:54 AM
    Michelle1996
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by rshreya00 View Post
    i know the feeling of liking a younger guy
    but never let a younger guy diss u like that
    its just not worth it

    you should tell him in person and explain that it is not working out

    Thanks for helping me, it means a lot to me.

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