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  • Jul 24, 2012, 09:09 PM
    babysony786
    He broke my no contact rule.
    I’m 20 and he’s 22. We have been dating for 1 and a half year and I’m his longest girlfriend and he has been my most serious relationship.

    We have had a very very rocky relationship he didn’t show me he cared and even said he cheated on me over 3 times last week when I mentioned that I found someone cute- little did I know that guy and my ex hate each other and he and turned around and said nice revenge, I cheated on you three times in our relationship.
    I took it on the chin as we were broken up but less than 5mins later he told me he never cheated and I hurt him by mentioning another guy. I took it on the chin and stayed friendly. Last Tuesday he asked me to be his booty call I got very angry and out of anger I told him never to contact me again - This was not said in a very nice way basically I said get the f*** out of my life and don’t ever f***** text me again. I know I was wrong but I could not control myself.

    It’s been 8 days of no contact it has been literally killing me, I dream of him I think of him all the time but I remained strong.

    Just now he text me on whatsupp saying I hope you’re okay?

    What to do? Ignore him and continue no contact or say I’m fine and tell him not to message me again?
  • Jul 24, 2012, 09:29 PM
    talaniman
    Ignore him, or option two, tell him to leave you alone, and ignore him some more.
  • Jul 25, 2012, 12:16 AM
    BethVader
    Change your phone number, it costs about $15.
    Then never talk to him again, delete all his info.
    Have a night (or a few!) out with your girl friends
    And forget about this loser. This is not a man who
    Would love you the way you deserve. Waiting for a
    Man to change is like waiting for a cat to morph into a fish.

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