I’m 20 and he’s 22. We have been dating for 1 and a half year and I’m his longest girlfriend and he has been my most serious relationship.

We have had a very very rocky relationship he didn’t show me he cared and even said he cheated on me over 3 times last week when I mentioned that I found someone cute- little did I know that guy and my ex hate each other and he and turned around and said nice revenge, I cheated on you three times in our relationship.
I took it on the chin as we were broken up but less than 5mins later he told me he never cheated and I hurt him by mentioning another guy. I took it on the chin and stayed friendly. Last Tuesday he asked me to be his booty call I got very angry and out of anger I told him never to contact me again - This was not said in a very nice way basically I said get the f*** out of my life and don’t ever f***** text me again. I know I was wrong but I could not control myself.

It’s been 8 days of no contact it has been literally killing me, I dream of him I think of him all the time but I remained strong.

Just now he text me on whatsupp saying I hope you’re okay?

What to do? Ignore him and continue no contact or say I’m fine and tell him not to message me again?

Ignore him, or option two, tell him to leave you alone, and ignore him some more.

Change your phone number, it costs about $15.
Then never talk to him again, delete all his info.
Have a night (or a few!) out with your girl friends
And forget about this loser. This is not a man who
Would love you the way you deserve. Waiting for a
Man to change is like waiting for a cat to morph into a fish.