I have been facing a problem that seriously effects myself confidence. I'm reaching my breaking point.
I'm a 17 year old female and I cannot feel any sexual pleasure at all. When I was younger I believed everything would come in good time, but as I'm leaving for college now and seeing my friends in relationships I'm losing hope.

Losing hope for what? Seems like you have the world at your feet with going off to college--many adventures ahead of you and I envy you for that. I remember those days with great happiness.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Losing hope for what? Seems like you have the world at your feet with going off to college--many adventures ahead of you and I envy you for that. I remember those days with great happiness.

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I'm losing hope that this problem will ever go away. It's quite embarrassing to be at an age when everyone around you is experienced and you're still wondering why you can't even feel pleasure to begin with.

You're thinking too much, obsessing over this. In college, get involved with your classes and studying, join one or two groups, get to know your roommate and other dorm mates (I hope you plan to be in a dorm). Don't worry about sexual pleasure and boyfriends right now. The world is huge and you are going to be full of energy right in the middle of it.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

You're thinking too much, obsessing over this. In college, get involved with your classes and studying, join one or two groups, get to know your roommate and other dorm mates (I hope you plan to be in a dorm). Don't worry about sexual pleasure and boyfriends right now. The world is huge and you are going to be full of energy right in the middle of it.

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I understand when reading your other answers you're trying to make youth refrain from any sexual activity but I'm worried that there is something irreversible wrong with my body. I've never known a person with the same problem.

I'm not obsessing over anything, I'm pretty sure there's something wrong with you when you can't feel any type of physical pleasure. Try to imagine going through life like that. The confusion growing up so far has already been enough seeing everyone going through the same patterns and being an outcast.

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Originally Posted by meetatlake420

I understand when reading your other answers you're trying to make youth refrain from any sexual activity

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Huh?

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but I'm worried that there is something irreversible wrong with my body. I've never known a person with the same problem.

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Then get yourself to a doctor.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Huh?

Then get yourself to a doctor.

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Sorry I meant to say that when reading similar posts people answering are trying to do so* I felt that vibe when reading your post.

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Originally Posted by meetatlake420

Sorry i meant to say that when reading similar posts people answering are trying to do so* I felt that vibe when reading your post.

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Well, that vibe wasn't there.

You have so much ahead of you with college. Stop obsessing over sexual functioning. You will have papers to write and tests to take and people to meet and get to know. Worrying about sex is the last thing on your list. If you have a physical problem, then go to a doctor.

First do you pleasure yourself, have you found the spots that feel the best for you.

You have to do that before a man ( or other women** don't know your preference) can please you, Because you have to tell them what you life. Few women ever climax during actual intercourse, it is at the pre play or post play the women will climax though other stimulation.

Hmm...

I don't have any sexual pleasure either...

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Well, that vibe wasn't there.

You have so much ahead of you with college. Stop obsessing over sexual functioning. You will have papers to write and tests to take and people to meet and get to know. Worrying about sex is the last thing on your list. If you have a physical problem, then go to a doctor.

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I didn't get that vibe