My (ex) boyfriend recently broke up with me.. We still on speaking terms but I saw him with a girl and before he broke up with me I saw messages on his phone from her.. they were flirting with each other He said they just friends but it hurts me to see them together as (friends).. I don't know what to do or to think and I just want to be with him!

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Originally Posted by lucia101

My (ex) boyfriend recently broke up with me.. We stil on speaking terms but I saw him with a girl and before he broke up with me I saw messages on his phone from her..they were flirting with eachother He said they just friends but it hurts me to see them together as (friends).. I don't know what to do or to think and I just want to be with him!!

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Dear Friend!

I can understand the heart-ache you are going through now. As this post is posted in the teen section I consider your age as 13-19 years old.

During teenage our preferences/choices/desires keep changing with the passing of time and situation. So it is really very difficult to hold onto something for a long time at this particular time of a person's life. That is why it is always advisable not to concentrate on anything of serious matter except studies. But that really doesn't happen because of spurt of puberty.

I would request you to forget him who doesn't respect your emotions. As your emotions are very precious. Don't allow anybody to play with them. Wait for the right time and for now concentrate on career and personality building.

God bless you.

This guy obviously has moved on to this other girl even if it is a friendship. You need to stop talking to him and get over him.
It is useless to pine for someone who is not interested in you.

Don't worry, jealousy is normal! You never know, he may be using this girl to help him get over you.

However not assuming anything, it probably would be best to distance yourself from him; if you are in the same group of friends then section yourself to a couple of people in the group. You could also confide in your closest friends who could help you, if he comes along with his arm draped around this girl then they can distract you, and can help you altogether.

Hope this helped <3

I was kind of in that situation like a month ago. But I was the girl he was texting. I was told that when his girlfriend (Sophia) and him were dating he would text other girls and when they broke up somehow we started talking. By the way I met this kid the first day of summer, we talked for 2 weeks and he stopped talking to me he led me on and told me he liked me and all this, we would hang out and everything. We did kiss and madeout and all that, but then like I said he stopped talking to me & later I found out he started talking to his ex again (Sophia) so maybe that's what's happening with you maybe he will go back to you so don't worry! :)

You need to move on even though I know it hurts. I know what this feels like but in the end you will be the stronger person. What goes around comes around