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  • Jul 22, 2012, 07:59 AM
    10longj
    Help me I'm in love
    I really like this boy at school, but just like every other guy in the world he runs away whenever I'm within 100ft. I cry myself to sleep about this boy. WHAT SHOULD I DO? I'v already told him I like him, in a note, and my mates have asked him out for me, but its always a no, and I never have the guts to talk to him face to face! HELP ME PLEASE!
  • Jul 22, 2012, 08:19 AM
    Homegirl 50
    Girl, don't cry yourself to sleep over someone who is not interested in you. He is not the only boy in the world.
    He does not like you, so move on. What is the point? You'll look desperate and desperation is not attractive.
  • Jul 22, 2012, 08:28 AM
    10longj
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Girl, don't cry yourself to sleep over someone who is not interested in you. He is not the only boy in the world.
    He does not like you, so move on. What is the point? You'll look desperate and desperation is not attractive.

    Thanks, but I still can't stop thinking about him, my friends try to help but there hopless, its only been 1 day and a half since we broke up from school, but I alredy miss him like a year has past! :( but thanks any way
  • Jul 22, 2012, 08:41 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by 10longj View Post
    thanks, but i still can't stop thinking about him, my freinds try to help but there hopless, its only been 1 day and a half scince we broke up from school, but i alredy miss him like a year has past! :( but thanks any way


    Leave him alone - you know he isn't interested. Find someone else.
  • Jul 22, 2012, 08:56 AM
    Homegirl 50
    It's only been a day? Good grief!
    Enjoy your summer. This guy will fade.
    He is not interested in you. Accept it and deal with it.
  • Jul 22, 2012, 10:00 AM
    chiradeep
    Dear Friend! I can understand the desperation in your heart. But dear can we cry for not getting a moon in the sky? The case you mentioned is something like that as the boy doesn't want you then why to go after him. Always try to have that kind of character within you that attracts people towards you. So build yourself more mature and concentrate on your number one priority. One day not you but there will be boys and people will be after you.

    God bless!
  • Jul 22, 2012, 12:45 PM
    lula_fifi
    Out of interest how old are you? When you are younger you can be in love with the idea of being in love, it's rather complicated; I'm 16 and when I had just turned 14, I met this person and I was convinced that I was in love and that we would end up together; of course we broke up after about 7 months, and when I look back, I see how silly it was.

    I'm sure what you have is a large crush for this boy, and a very sweet one. If I were you, I'd just send him a message on Facebook or something, whatever way of communicating you have, and just start some small talk - it should lead into conversations and you'll get to know each other really well, and who knows, he may even see you in a whole new light then! It'll be absoltely terrifying when you talk to him face to face, but trust me, you'll love it.

    I hope I helped <3
  • Jul 22, 2012, 01:29 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by lula_fifi View Post
    Out of interest how old are you? When you are younger you can be in love with the idea of being in love, it's rather complicated; I'm 16 and when I had just turned 14, I met this person and I was convinced that I was in love and that we would end up together; of course we broke up after about 7 months, and when I look back, I see how silly it was.

    I'm sure what you have is a large crush for this boy, and a very sweet one. If I were you, I'd just send him a message on Facebook or something, whatever way of communicating you have, and just start off some small talk - it should lead into conversations and you'll get to know each other really well, and who knows, he may even see you in a whole new light then! It'll be absoltely terrifying when you talk to him face to face, but trust me, you'll love it.

    I hope I helped <3


    She's 13.

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