I have just broken up with my girlfriend who I love very much. She finished it because of the way things have been going in the last few months of our relationship, I treated her really bad because I found myself getting more and more jealous and for no reason because she was to be trusted. I know that for a fact but I had a huge fear of losing her. I’m going to get help for my problems in the hope of resolving the insecurity and anger issues. I have promised her so many times I would stop this and at the time I meant it but because I didn’t get proper help I fell back into that way of thinking.

She has told me she loves me and misses me but she can’t take the risk anymore. I love her and her baby girl more than anything. Is there any way I can win her back now because I want to spend the rest of my life with her. Is there anything I can do now?

Yes. Get help to conquer your fear and maybe she will change her mind. Leave her alone until you do.

I think you should admit to her your issues to her, and tell her you are going to try your best to get help, and you do not want her to forget you. You just want to have the comfort that she is going to be waiting for you while you get through this. Tell her you really want to be with her, and tell her you are sorry for your behavior. Never let go of the person you love the most even though it may seem like it is the best answer to your problems. You have to fight in a relationship. Do not take the easy route, and let her go.

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Originally Posted by kawaisoni

I think you should admit to her your issues to her, and tell her you are going to try your best to get help, and you do not want her to forget you. You just want to have the comfort that she is going to be waiting for you while you get through this. Tell her you really want to be with her, and tell her you are sorry for your behavior. Never let go of the person you love the most even though it may seem like it is the best answer to your problems. You have to fight in a relationship. Do not take the easy route, and let her go.

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I will keep fighting for her I love her way too much to let her go but it is very comlicated I don't no if there is anything I can do but I will keep trying and thanks

Solve the problem that poisoned her love FIRST!!