So I have been with this man since 1996. We have been married for 12 years. We finally after many years had a child with some serious issues. He has a Rare Brain disorder called Lissencephaly. So its already been a hard road to travel. But before our son came along I have left him twice because simply he's an . Everything is put before me. I rarely get any affection. He only wants to show me he cares about me when he knows I'm ready to walk out. I've just had enough but like many women out there I have now family here, no money to leave him, and right now I am currently unemployed. What's a women to do??

If you love your husband fight for your marriage. But most of all PRAY ABOUT IT. Allow God to work it out, just be still..

Where in the world do you live? How old is your son? How capable is your husband of supporting you and your son if you were to divorce him?

If your husband isn't treating you the way you deserve to be treated then the best thing for you to do is leave. If u have family that's able to help you with the move then that's even better. Look for employment and a comfortable place to live for you and your son, start over. Best of luck to u.

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Originally Posted by cjsmommy928

So I have been with this man since 1996. We have been married for 12 years. We finally after many years had a child with some serious issues. He has a Rare Brain disorder called Lissencephaly. So its already been a hard road to travel. But before our son came along I have left him twice because simply he's an . Everything is put before me. I rarely get any affection. He only wants to show me he cares about me when he knows I'm ready to walk out. I've just had enough but like many women out there I have now family here, no money to leave him, and right now I am currently unemployed. What's a women to do??????????

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Counseling or
Alimony and child support come to mind.