Me, my boyfriend and a group of 3 other friends went to a park after school for a picnic. We went on a hike and played on the jungle gym and everything but every time I looked at my one friend she was always checking my boyfriend out. He didn't seem to knotice but I still felt weird about it. Also, every day when I'm hanging out with my boufriend or even making out with him she always comes up and talks to him a bunch and ignors me. He doesn't talk much to people besides me because he's shy. He gives me glances like "what do i do?" because he doesn't know her at all really and is always unsure of himself around my friends. As for my friend, she's always insisting she is not interested in dating anyone but she is a huge flirt and is always kind of posing of guys like she thinks she's super sexy or something. She cute but she tries too hard. I don't know if I want to talk to her about it or not. So my question is: should I talk to her about it and if so how do I bring it up? I'm 15 and a sophomore and so is my friend and my boyfriend is 16 and a junior. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 and a half months now.

She is just flirting and you say she does it to guys. That is just who she is. If it bothers him he needs to learn how to speak up

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Originally Posted by geekoverlord

Me, my boyfriend and a group of 3 other friends went to a park after school for a picnic. we went on a hike and played on the jungle gym and everything but every time i looked at my one friend she was always checking my boyfriend out. he didnt seem to knotice but i still felt weird about it. also, every day when im hanging out with my boufriend or even making out with him she always comes up and talks to him a bunch and ignors me. he doesnt talk much to people besides me because hes shy. he gives me glances like "what do i do?" because he doesnt know her at all really and is always unsure of himself around my friends. as for my friend, shes always insisting she is not interested in dating anyone but she is a huge flirt and is always kind of posing of guys like she thinks shes super sexy or something. she cute but she trys too hard. i dont know if i want to talk to her about it or not. so my question is: should i talk to her about it and if so how do i bring it up? im 15 and a sophmore and so is my friend and my boyfriend is 16 and a junior. me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 and a half months now.

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If you both are dating then how can that other girl comes to know the place and time of your meeting/dating? You talk to your boyfriend and plan to stay away from this girl. You ask your boyfriend to stop that other girl. As you both are young now, concentrate on your studies. Rest of the things can be done when you grow older.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

She is just flirting and you say she does it to guys. That is just who she is. If it bothers him he needs to learn how to speak up

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He doesn't mind because he doesn't realize she's flirting with him. The problem is that I'm not sure if I'm compfortable with her flirting with him. Also we hang out in the halls of school before classes and before we were dating we did the same thing. Now that we are dating she is coming and flirting with him. I'm just not sure about if I'm overreacting or if she's even doing it on purpose...